These have turned out to be my three great joys.
I didn’t know this ten years ago. They’re the further unfurling of a journey I’ve been on for some time now.
Dawdling, as in wandering, is about observing and appreciating more deeply a place or a thing or a person.
Doodling derives from dawdling, wandering with a line across a piece of paper is about listening, and when I add colour, is about relaxing.
Dreamwhispering is the name I give to listening to what our lives have to say about our values, talents and energies.
When we notice these, we’re able to imagine a different, deeper stories for our lives.
I’ve been bringing the three together in my Chaplaincy blog Slow Journeys in the Same Direction, which provides a thought, a doodle, and some exercises for a deeper journey into knowing ourselves and others.
Lately, I have found myself naming it a journey of mythological proportions as it takes to heart what mythologist Joseph Campbell spoke about how we need two myths for our lives in order to thrive: a personal myth and a social myth. I wrap these as two questions:
Who is my true self?
What is my contribution?
Speaking in 1985, Campbell pointed to the problem of life changing so fast so that the old myths no longer served us, but neither were we able to find the time to create the new ones we need. We are lost in ourselves and lost with others.
Campbell didn’t live to see the change that was about to be unleashed in the shape of the internet, a tool capable of accelerating change exponentially.
We’re now discovering or rediscovering numerous ways of bringing about a balance between our inner and outer worlds, finding a healthier rhythm for living, the way of integrity as Martha Beck names it:
To be in integrity is to be one thing, whole and undivided.*
I offer dawdling, doodling and dreamwhispering as an interruption to the speed and busyness.
We can take a familiar route on foot at half our normal pace and notice what we miss through speed. The same effect will be had when we slow down and take a closer look at our lives. Values begin to appear in greater detail; there’s more to our talents and abilities than we had thought, and we see how they connect with our energies – the ways our lives respond to the things we fill our days with.
Ursula Franklin may be borrowing words for democracy to describe technology, but they also work to describe the contents of our lives:
I intend to look at technology the way [C. B.] Macpherson looked at democracy, as ideas and dreams, as practices and procedures, as hopes and myths.**
We are more than practices and procedures. We not only express roles and responsibilities but also dreams and stories.
Here are some thing you can try: take a slow walk through a familiar place, noting through your senses what you normally miss; take a slow walk through your values with a journal, capturing the things that matter to you most; create a doodle to illustrate this. You’re also welcome to visit Slow Journeys.