watchmen

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‘So long as the gift is not withheld, the creative spirit remains a stranger to the the economics of scarcity.’*

Watchmen traditionally were those who guarded a city at night, watching and waiting through the darkness for the dawn to arrive safely when the people would awake to the hustle and bustle of everyday life.

There is a new breed of watch-women and -men needed today.   They will be about their work in the background, helping people to realise their true worth given their skills and experiences and dreams, towards being confident in themselves and projecting this in their contributions to others.

Scarcity hates a gift.  It is seen as wasteful to some.  To others, it detracts from their sense of specialness – something they deserve and others don’t.  What kind of crazy world would we live in if everyone was seen as special?

Others, though, have seen enough of small worlds or microcosms of gift-sharing in which everyone contributes, knowing that a universe of abundance is not only possible but it is dramatically healthier than what we have at the moment.

Such spaces are where we can both discover and be supported in our worthiness – tribes creating a better future.

‘Everybody should be quiet near a little stream and listen.’**

‘I remember the many occasions on which help has come from precisely those people whom I though had nothing to add to my life.’^

Those who are strong are not the people who want to be recognised, honoured, and served.  The strong ones are those who know who they are, are deeply aware of others, and have the power to serve in a myriad of imaginative and inventive and beautiful ways.

“I don’t know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know: The only ones among you who will be really happy are those who sought and found out how to serve.”^^

(*From Lewis Hyde’s The Gift.)
(**From Ruth Krauss’s Open House for Butterflies.)
(^From Paulo Coelho’s Aleph.)
(Albert Schweitzer, quoted in Whatcha Gonna Do With That Duck?)

no louder than the beating of your heart*

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“Hope is a projection of the imagination; so is despair.  Despair all too readily embraces the ills it foresees; hope is an energy and arouses the mind to explore every possibility to combat them.”**

We are explorers of living for something greater than ourselves.

We have to become more skilled in hope, though; despair, or hopelessness, can be a more powerful energy than hope.

‘To be human is to be in trouble.’^

Nassim Taleb would probably describe this journey from despair to hope as one of fragility to antifragility.^^  Sherry Turkle’s observation of a scientists interaction with a robot adds further nuance.  The scientist in here experiments tries to feel what the robot is “feeling” – the robot’s programming that makes it possible to act and interact as it does.*^  This brings the realisation that humans are programmed too: something that’s taken place over many years years in thousands upon thousands of interactions in which we have been acted upon and reacted or responded to the different stimuli.

This programming has been a slow journey and so will be our reprogramming, which is a problem because slowness is something we’re averse to.  We want to become a better version of ourselves quickly.

“Reducing one’s attention to time may … be an important yet previously overlooked means of promoting flow.”^*

Speed is such a key component of our globalised and world-wide-webbed world that we can miss how it detracts from the focus required for flow and how it “flattens” distinction and nuance.

A person’s reprogramming or reinventing of who they are needs to be “local, specific, and particular.”⁺  In a culture that becomes bored with repetition we have also thrown out routine but they are different: ‘Routine.  Routine has nothing to do with repitition.’⁺⁺  Routine, or elegant interface with our story, is what brings us to the place of reinvention and development.

To become a person of greater hope honouring slowness and valuing routine, I need to better understand how everything is connected and interdependent; that we all have something, a gift, that is valuable for others to become more fruitful in their own lives; we can use all energy – positive and negative – for the good of self and others; nothing in life or in our lives is wasted; amazing things happen when people with complementary outlooks and skills work together for mutual benefit; and, we are all meant to be generative, fruitful beings in some way or other.

Everyone.

(*From Boris Pasternak’s description of a great moment coming to our lives, quote in the Northumbria Community‘s Morning Prayer.)
(**Thornton Wilder, quoted in Eugene Peterson’s A Long Obedience in the Same Direction.)
(^From Eugene Peterson’s A Long Obedience in the Same Direction.)
(^^See Nassim Taleb’s Antifragile.)
(*^See Sherry Turkle’s Alone Together.)
(^*Regina Conti, quoted in Maggie Berg and Barbara Seeber’s The Slow Professor.)
(⁺Borrowed from Tara Brabazon, quoted in Maggie Berg and Barbara Seeber’s The Slow Professor.)
(⁺⁺From Paulo Coelho’s Aleph.)

the pleasures of touch

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“Show me the hidden things, the creatures of my dreams, the storehouses of forgotten memories and hurts.  Take me down to the spring of my life, and tell me my nature and my name.”*

‘The rebirth of curiosity doesn’t last long, unless we enjoy being curious.”**

We get to mix our curiosities and skills and experiences of life into a dream of possibilities.

A dream once mixed doesn’t last long, though – sometimes minutes or hours, often no longer than three days.  It must touch the earth and feel the air in at least some small way in order to live.

What happens then can be nothing less than breathtaking.  Dreams not only open the future but transform the past – for the past is where we have been shaped into who we are, even with our longings for more it is where we have defined our focus, where we have honed our strength and produced our gift.

‘Awareness is the greatest agent of change.’^

To see and know things is to be able to dream.  It doesn’t have to be dramatic – it often isn’t:

I do not bring fire or earthquake or wind – I bring silence.

The silence is always speaking to us.  I mean the things and people and ideas that surround us, that we’re immersed in, everyday but often take for granted – the tings which lie before amazing things being imagined and brought into being.

Humans build things big but the larger we build things – like the products of the industrial and technological revolutions but also systems of business and care and such – the more disconnected we become, the less the majority are able to connect to their curiosities and skills and creativity: think Sports Direct or MacDonalds.  What Richard Sennett observed in the 19th Century steel industry looks like it still holds true today:

‘In the nineteenth-century steel industry, skilled artisans faced two potential futures because of technological change: deskilling or dismissal … Mechanical change came to the labour force rather than from within the labour movement.’^^

But you are a dreamer.

(*George Appleton, quoted in the Northumbria Community‘s Morning Prayer.)
(**From Mihaly Csikszenmihalyi’s Creativity.)
(^From Eckhart Tolle’s A New Earth.)
(^^From Richard Sennett’s The Craftsman.)

after yesterday and before tomorrow

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‘The desire to change was meaningless if I couldn’t find a way to make change happen.’*

‘Yesterday shows another day is here.’**

Sometimes we need to be quiet and ask where something is flowing from and where it’s flowing to.

A gift has a yesterday, today, and tomorrow.  It comes from outside of my life, from somewhere else, from someone else.  For a time it remains with me and I must make it mine somehow shape it, personalising it, making more of it – this before I can give it on.

All the time, the gift is becoming more.  It’s a “yes and” game.  What have I received?  How will I shape it?  Who will I give it to?

Sometimes we need to be quiet and ask where something is flowing from and where it is flowing to.

(*From Gretchen Rubin’s The Happiness Project.)
(**From Ruth Krauss’s Open House for Butterflies.)

cause and effect

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‘Must is scary, hard, like jumping off a terrifyingly high cliff, where you can’t see anything down below.’*

‘I know that life without a cause is life without effect.’**

This could go very wrong.

That’s the point. We want to learning improve. This thing we must do, this thing is going to make a difference for someone, somewhere.

If there’s no failure involved then it’s not the innovative thing we hoped it would be. It’s only as good as everything else, and everything else isn’t working.

Because you’re learning from failure – reimagining, innovating, reshaping, and trying again – even if you just keep going in the direction of your cause, you will have an effect.  This alone could be what others need.

(*From Elle Luna’s The Crossroads of Should and Must.)
(**From Paulo Coelho’s Aleph.)

untapped happiness

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‘Too much of the world’s happiness depends on taking from one to satisfy another.  To create my standard of living, people in another part of the world must lower theirs.’*

“Follow you bliss and doors will open where there were no doors before.”**

We don’t have to take happiness from others.  We are capable of creating goodness and happiness.

It’s the most astonishing thing.  With the grain of the universe, we’ve stumbled upon the close thing there’ll eve be to alchemy through our curiosity and imagination.

As we come to the end of 2016, I remember how a year ago I caught sight of someone’s frustration.  Recognising their uniqueness, I offered some help offered help.  The journey didn’t begin and I wonder how 2o16 turned out, whether this person was able to “follow their bliss” – their purpose, story, dream, find their flow?  I hope so.

Here are some questions for the beginning of an alchemy quest:

What would be a meaningful place for you to reach by the end of the new year?
What are you most curious about and fascinated by in life? How and when do you naturally reflect and read?

(*From Eugene Peterson’s A Long Obedience in the Same Direction.)
(**Joseph Campbell, quoted in Elle Luna’s essay The Crossroads of Should and Must.)

what lurks within?

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“We have to be candles burning between hope and despair, faith and doubt, life and death, all the opposites.”*

“So maybe you aren’t any happier, you just think you are.”**

Not everything is measurable.  Happiness for example.  Well, at least not by the means we try to employ.

As Gretchen Ruben came to the end of her happiness project a scientist friend asked if you had used some systematic measurement.  She replies that she hasn’t and goes on to say it’s not that she thinks she is but feels she is and to know is more than thinking.

We can think all we like and we can miss how we feel.  I don’t mean the simple feeling of happiness and sadness but the more subtle feelings of connecting with some thing deep within us, or those of disconnection.  Noticing these more nuanced feelings and knowing how to interpret them helps us move forward with a more hopeful and imaginative worldview and life-path and away from destructive one.

Elle Luna writes for ‘Anyone looking to follow the energy deep within their chest but aren’t quite sure how to.’^  This joyful excitement within reconciles me with a universe of possibility over and against a world of measurement.^^

All things working together rather than measuring this against that.

(*William Brodrick, quoted in the Northumbria Community‘s Morning Prayer.)
(**A scientist friend of Gretchen Ruben’s, quoted in The Happiness Project.)
(^From Elle Luna’s essay The Crossroads of Should and Must.)
(^^Terms used by Rosamund and Benjamin Zander in The Art of 
Possibility.)