We make a difference by seeing and dancing with it. We can work with a system to achieve our goals, and we can change a system over time.*
Seth Godin

It can be reorganised and restructured to produce different behaviours, but rarely easily or quickly. System transformation is therefore a long and winding journey – not a short or straight-forward project…We combine persevering and resting to ensure that we remain effective and healthy for the journey.**
Adam Kahane

Fables, behaviours, foibles …
Relationships, journeys, finances …
Activity, mundanity, rest …
Errors, failures, prejudices …
Guilt, regrets, dreams …
Plans, disappointments, settlement–

The system that each of us is
never changes in the blink of an eye –
The harder we are on ourselves,
The more we push,
The greater the resistance–

Better to learn our complexity,
To see ourselves clearly
so we can dance awhile.

*Seth Godin’s This Is Strategy;
**Adam Kahane’s Everyday Habits for Transforming Systems.

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Living inside our mental models is so seductively convincing that it can be a shock to realise they are not the real world.*
John Higgs

The Alter Ego is your deepest self, the truest version of you.**
Todd Herman

Kal-El became Clark Kent
to find his home in a new world–

Such a big world
for each of us to find our place in–

It may take a lifetime
to connect to ourselves and our world–

Just because we make us up
doesn’t mean we aren’t true–

We feed our truest self
with as much reality as possible–

Then the real
magic begins–

Placebos are part of an ancient human tradition of endowing objects or symbols with magic.^

*John Higgs’ William Blake vs The World;
**Todd Herman’s The Alter Ego Effect;
^Ethan Kross’ Chatter.

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MERAKI (adj): Pouring yourself wholeheartedly into something, such as cooking, and doing so with soul, creativity and love. [Greek]*
Ella Frances Sanders

In Blake’s sense, a firm persuasion was a form of self-knowledge; it was understood as a result, an outcome, a bounty that comes from paying close attention to an astonishing world and the way each of us is made differently and uniquely for that world.**
John Higgs

Life is best
when poured into
an expressive life.

Whether streams
or oceans of possibility–
A soul must decide.

What matters is
that we find our way to
soulful, wholehearted works.

If you want to build a ship, don’t drum up the men to gather wood, divide the work, and give orders. Instead, teach them to yearn for the vast and endless sea.^

*Ella Frances Sanders’ Lost In Translation;
**John Higgs’ William Blake vs The World;
^Antoine de Saint Exupéry, quoted in gapingvoid’s blog: When In Doubt, Swim Upstream.

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The most interesting strategies happen at the edges, and the edges exist because that’s where the constraints are.*
Seth Godin

*Seth Godin’s This Is Strategy.

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Many seem to flinch at direct contact with strangers or pretend the apparent intrusion didn’t happen, so I’ve come to avoid the tiny interactions that seem much more welcome in New Orleans, even in New York City.*
Rebecca Solnit

*Rebecca Solnit’s No Straight Road Takes You There.

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The myth and its accompanying rituals were a reminder that often things had to get worse before they could get better, and that survival and creativity required a dedicated struggle.*
Karen Armstrong

*Karen Armstrong’s A Short History of Myth.

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It’s good that you’re feeling bored.  Bored is an actual feeling.  Bored can prompt toward motion…Bored is what empty space feels like, and you can use that empty space to do something important…I’m glad you’re feeling bored, and now we’re excited to see what you’re going to do about it. *
Seth Godin

Once you’ve truly settled into the anaesthetising effects of boredom, you find yourself enroute to discovery. … You let your mind wander and follow it where it goes.**
Pamela Paul

When did you learn the word boring?

My six year old grandson has begun to use it.

I’m gently letting him know being bored is his responsibility.

And boredom can appear before an adventure.

*Seth Godin blog: Thoughts on “I’m bored”;
**nytimes.com: Let Children Get Bored Again.

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It was a musical thing, and you were supposed to sing or dance while the music was being played.*
Alan Watts

The blue community** does not stand as guardians at the tombs of yesterday; it walks as midwife to the birth of tomorrow.^
AleXander McManus

Universe
plays the music–
We find the words to sing,
The steps to jig.

We
bring the meaning–
A contribution to make,
Our deepest wisdom.

We
harbingers of dawn–
Not recycling the past,
Believing in possibility.

*Anne-Laure Le Cunff’s Tiny Experiments;
**Those who are open to the the transcendence to be discovered in all things;
^AleXander McManus’ Blue Moments.

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Nothing happens until someone feels something.*
gapingvoid

Whatever pain you can’t get rid of, make it your creative offering – or find someone who makes it for you.**
Susan Cain

There are meanings born
in the simplicity of joy.

Others, though,
derive from the difficulty of complexity.

Yet others are forged
from the pain and endless despair of perplexity.

Our brains
need our feelings to know what to do.

A conversation ensues,
No misleadings, please.

Then the brain
moves us into action … with all our heart.

*gapingvoid’s blog: The Secret Key To Success;
**Susan Cain’s Bittersweet.

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When it comes to our life stories, nothing is ever final.*
Dan McAdams

Even though pop music uses many similar chords and structures, sometimes it still gives pop shivers…when moving to a certain chord hits just right, with just the right voicing, with just the right chord preceding it, with just the right melody over it.**
Gabe Anderson

Postmythic
is an option–
As I grow older I could be content to review my myth.

It’s one option–
Another
is to grow and develop my myth as long as possible.

As long as possible–
A euphemism
for the rest of my days, and the best day to begin is today.

Mythic–
A mystery
worth continuing– different people, situations, challenges … new shivers.

*Dan McAdams’ The Stories We Live By;
**Gabe Anderson’s blog: Pop Shivers.

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