A refined soul is in general one with the gift of transforming the most limited taks and the most petty object into something infinite by the way in which it is handled.*
What matters most in the end?
Is it not love in all its dimensions and aspects – compassion, passion, etc.?
Add forgiveness to this and you have a fascinating dynamic – the possibility of starting over following failure and towards wisdom.
Love and forgiveness open an infinite field of possibility, a natural environment for the True Self to grow, to become a generator of the field.
(*From Friedrich Schiller’s On the Aesthetic Education of Man.)