There is such a thing as learned helplessness. This mindset sounds something like: “No matter what we do, nothing will change, so why bother?” Life experiences have taught this.
There is also learned mastery. This mindset sound more like: “Our being here matters and changes things for the better. Okay, things might not have worked so far, but next time might be different.”
The important word in both of these sentences is “learned.”
Whilst some are more pessimistic than others, helplessness is learned. And so is mastery.
For some people, to be able to get to evens is good. Many more can move beyond even, though, especially when they find and connect with each another.
I need you to open your eyes and understanding. Three words which, surprisingly -because of how we usually think of them – provide us with an opportunity to move. They are: humility, gratitude, and faithfulness might. At first sight they suggest knowing our place, being grateful for small mercies, and doing the things we ought to do no matter what.
Obversely, what they do provide is a true and honest picture of ourselves, to possibility of seeing all we have as fuel for making fire, and being able to create the steps (habits and behaviours) to live these out in impactful ways.
There are ways of doing what you do more – and with a flourish: that flick of liberty and panache.
Who know where this might take you?