Good engineers don’t whine about trade-offs, because they realise that they’re the entire point. If there were no trade-offs, we wouldn’t need their help, there would be no interesting problems worth solving.*
We are partners in the unfolding of the universe.**
The universe is unfolding …. and we are universe. We are in the universe and the universe is in us.
How much unfolding is there left in me?
How much in you?
We will be surprised, I think, for when we embrace trade-offs and compromises, that is, when we let go in order to take hold of what is wanting to come then we’ll find there’s a lot of unfolding yet to happen.