Who is my gift for?
“Yet maybe this small and mysterious exchange of gifts remained inside me also deep and indestructible, giving my poetry light.”*
Chilean poet Pablo Neruda is reflecting on when he, as a child, found a worn toy sheep in a hole in the fence between his family home and their neighbour’s. He left a pine cone in it’s stead, and, though he later lost the toy in a fire, this exchange of gifts directed his work.
Ideo’s Fred Dust dared to see the notion of design and product to be more than a financial transaction when he suggested:
“You’re a better designer if you love the people you’re designing for.”**
In the beginning, there is the gift.
The thing we most want to give for someone. We must not compare ourselves with anyone else – who they are, what they have, how they express themselves.
There’s only you and what the universe has given you the opportunity to express.
And to carry this through life.
Otto Scharmer only warns us of three pitfalls: fame, money, and empire-building.^
(*Pablo Neruda, quoted in Lewis Hyde’s The Gift.)
(**Fred Dust, quoted in Bernadette Jiwa’s Meaningful.)
(^Otto Scharmer’s Theory U.)y