We all need someone to open up the way before us: a permissioner.

In turn, we become permissioners of others.

When we get the hang of this, we can permission ourselves too.

This not only covers what we do but how we do it.  When people live in attractive ways – the things which Erich Fromm named basic norms for human being – they give permission to others to live similarly.

Permissioners come from the future – what we can each be and what we can we be together.