you can do anything you want – the myth

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How many times have you heard this said to someone; perhaps even to you?

It’s a myth, of course.

There are things I can do and there are things I cannot.  I can accept this or face bitter disappointment.  Behind this reality, there are many reasons and choices I’ve made along the path of my life, leading to certain things being open to me and others being closed.

These are the boundaries and spaces and restrictions which inform and form my life and my art.

Now we get to value the true capacity of our lives, including our capacity to grow and develop, both ourselves as works of art, and producing the things we want to infuse with goodness for others.

Erwin McManus has been reminding me of things I first heard him share almost ten years ago: the artist has three primary colours to create from; the musician has twelve notes; and, the architect has squares, circles, and triangles.  Each set of resources seems so limited when you account for them in these ways, and yet we are overwhelmed by the way accepting these limitations allows for incredible imagination and creativity.

These lines, limitations, and rules become helpful because every day they provide us with a place to begin (the kinds of “limitations” available to artists, musicians, and architects, are also found in other expressions of Human creativity).

Only be honest about who you are and what you have and begin to craft something only you can imagine and produce, whether it be in art or creating a cafe or working with words or cleaning spaces or providing customer service or offering counselling or providing terminal care or defining creative office environments.

You may not be able to do anything you want – hopefully that myth is busted – but you can become more who you are and do more of that thing you do.

2 thoughts on “you can do anything you want – the myth

  1. Good old Erwin!
    We all have our particular gifting (from God), something at which we may be ‘a natural’ so to speak. However I believe we can all attain a degree of skill at anything we put our minds to, with the right teaching, instruction and encouragement. There is a lot of truth in the old adage ‘you’ll never know until you try’. BUT there is one thing that is crucial to all of this and that is we will not improve or develop unless as the saying goes, ‘our heart is in it’.

  2. Thanks, Pete. What you say is right. Here’s what happens when we get into look at some of the detail. Imagine two axis – Low (lp) and High Passion (hp) on the Y axis, and Low (lc) and High Competency (hc) on the X axis. Focusing on the things which come to mind through what you say, put them in the different quadrants. Here are the possibilities. First quadrant (lp/lc) – delegate it. Second quadrant (lp/hc) – teach it. Third quadrant (hp/lc) – learn it. Fourth (hp/hc) – do it yourself. Nothing is wasted and movement can happen between the different quadrants.

    The stuff we really love and our heart is in – this is found in the fourth quadrant.

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