Humans are journey-making creatures.

Yuval Noah Harari describes how there were once tens of thousands of “worlds” within our planet. As Humans made their journeys, these other worlds disappeared to one another.  The last major world to be integrated into our “one world” was Tasmania.

Have we become more Human as a result?

We are now on the brink of journeying into space.

Journey is a powerful metaphor we use in other ways, too.  We travel through life by growing older, changing work, meeting new and different people, facing challenges, serving.  The best journeys are transformative, help us to become, to change, to grow.

‘Struggling through the production of Toy Story 2 twisted our heads around, causing us to look inward, to be self-critical and to change the way we thought about ourselves.’*

It’s not so much about entering the journey, but the journey entering us, when it changes us.

Every day can be a transformative journey, capable of changing us – just a little.  What are the new ideas, who are the new people, where are there different sequences offering us an opportunity to stretch and become.  And tomorrow, there’ll be another day.

Create, give, enjoy.

(*From Ed Catmull’s Creativity, Inc..)

Anger tells us something is wrong.  We then have a choice: to become immersed in the anger, often leading to poor or weak decisions and worse actions, or we can do something about what’s wrong – we can get creative.

One place to begin is to ask questions about our felt anger.  Perhaps the prime question is: Which of my values has just been transgressed by this?

Our values come from the deepest places our lives, guiding us and making it possible to respond with foresight, intention, and love.

Great questions help us to open our minds, in turn allowing us to open our hearts to the whole situation, towards coming up with an imaginative response.

When we connect to our values, we know there are many responses we can select from.

Create, give, enjoy.

“Each thing we see hides something else we want to see,”*

Warren Berger warns that ‘well meaning people are always trying to solve a problem by answering the wrong question.’**

The wrong question is often an easier question.  Sometimes, we see someone in pain and, wanting to help them through this, we change the question – maybe not even seeing this is what we’ve done.

Our best work is uncovered in the places where we find ourselves wrestling with different questions, challenges, and demands, when we’re not prepared to go with the first answer, or rest on what we have done before.  Ed Catmull admits Toy Story 2 was going to be terrible: ‘The story was hollow, predictable, without tension, the humour fell flat.’^  Partners Disney were happy enough to let it go straight to video, but Pixar wanted to reach greater heights.

We all need our story to overflow with good things, to be unpredictable in the best possible ways, to have creative tension, and have plenty of laughter,

(*René Magritte, quoted in Erwin McManus’s Soul Cravings.)
(**From Warren Berger’s A More Beautiful Question.)
(^From Ed Catmull’s Creativity, Inc..)

What were you thinking?

The excitement rush is over and the reality of what you’ve done is now settling in.

There’s only cold, hard reality, and, inside, a growing panic.

Time to refocus.  You have to trust all that brought you to the point of jumping: your story, filled with all that thinking and feeling and behaving.

There’re are certainly more words now in your lexicon for describing your skills and your dreams, and those of people around you.  You’ve even made up some new words and phrases up as so many of the inherited didn’t fit comfortably.

You know why you are who you are and why this has led you down different paths to others.

‘Leave it all, and let you send just slip back into the rhythms of your intimate wildness. You will be surprised at the lost terrains, wells and mountains that you will rediscover, territories which have been buried under well-meaning but dead names.  To go beyond beyond confinement is to rediscover yourself.*

If your mind isn’t on the fear right now, it’s because you’ve just reconnected to your story – the one which caused you to jump, the one that’ll not let you down now.

(*From John O’Donohue’s Eternal Echoes.)

“Be blessed.  And just as you are transforming your own life, may you transform the lives of those around you.  When they ask, do not forget to give.  When they knock at your door, be sure to open it.  When they lose something and come to you, do whatever you can to help them find what they have lost.  First, though, ask, knock at the door and find what is missing from your life.”*

Wisdom can be understood as what we know and who we are and the world in which we find ourselves, and our thoughts and our relationships and out behaviours all contribute to all things flourishing and thriving.

In the Genesis myth, Eve and Adam take the fruit from the tree of good and evil, or, wisdom – apparently, this was the one thing they were not supposed to do.

I find myself wondering whether this story is about how we are unable to pluck wisdom like a fruit, already formed; it has to be grown like a tree, through the kind of daily interactions described in the quote, above.

Wisdom-living is never ours in some hermetically sealed way.  Every thought, relationship, or behaviour reduces or increases the wisdom happening in our lives.

‘Whatever these forces are that make people do dumb things, they are powerful, they are often invisible, and they lurk even in the best of environments.’**

Even in the Paradise of the Genesis myth.

Wisdom – or thriving or life-in-all-its-fullness – emerges out of struggle.  It cannot be reduced to mundaneness or captured in habits and practices and self-help manuals – more attempts to pluck the fruit, more shortcuts.  By struggling to grow wisdom, we become receptive to what we do not know and cannot do, yet:

‘You were sent to the earth to become a receiver of the unknown.’^

‘The greatest quest is to make humanity human.  This will require more than knowledge, it will require wisdom.’^^

(*A Siberian shaman in Paulo Coelho’s Aleph.)
(**From Ed Catmull’s Creativity, Inc..)
(^From John O’Donohue’s Eternal Echoes.)
(^^From Alex McManus’s Makers of Fire.)

So what are we going to do?

We can moan about how hard things are – we all do it.

Or we can use these same things as means and opportunities for finding a better future – to be honed by the trial: who we are and what we do.

There are things that can destroy us – I don’t mean these things.  These are the abyss, chaos, but the edge of chaos is something else:

‘The edge of chaos is a condition, not a location.  It is a permeable, intermediate state through which order and disorder flow, not a finite line of demarcation.  Moving to the edge of chaos creates upheaval but not dissolution.  That’s why the edge of chaos is so important.  The edge is not the abyss  It’s the sweet spot for productive change.’**

Better rarely comes easily or via a shortcut.  Easy lulls us into asking the wrong questions.  Hard makes us ask deeper, better questions, and there’s always more than one to be asked.

(*Bob Dylan‘s song, which I first heard sung by Bryan Ferry.)
(**From Richard Pascale, Mark Millemann, and Londa Rioja’s Surfing the Edge of Chaos.)

‘Maybe it’s the afternoon, maybe it’s the light, but at that moment, the universe seems to be in perfect harmony.’*

There’s a moment when what are you doing, why are you doing it, who are you doing this for and with, and when you are doing it align.

Understanding what each of these elements comprises of will mean you’re better able to place yourself in a future moment of alignment, to do the thing only you can do, the reason you feel you are in the universe to contribute.

Be honest, in this moment, you’re not thinking about how much you earn or the size of the house you live in.  You know what has made this moment happen are values and hopes, some dreams, unique skills and talents, and a need beyond yourself.

What you’re realising is most the most important things of all are already within you, and, when you recognise and employ these you know a freedom of being and movement.

It’s worth taking a few moments to capture these things, to write or draw them to be able to reflect on them and imagine how to express them.  All of what you capture means you have enough to begin.

(*From Paulo Coelho’s Aleph.)

‘Live the question now.
Perhaps then, someday far in the future,
you will gradually,
without even noticing it, live your way into the answer.’*

Questions bring light.

We often speak about “shedding light” and “seeing the light,” and it sounds as though we’ve found the answers.

But more questions equals more light.

Asking if we’re going with the wrong answers, or whether we’re asking the wrong questions – the easier ones?

It’s best to see everything – nothing hidden.  The best questions open up more, allow us to imagine more, and imitate what we see.

‘Now, more than ever, more of us have the freedom to care, the freedom to connect, the freedom to choose, the freedom to initiate, the freedom to do what matters.  If we choose.**

(*Rainer Maria Rilke, from The Northumbria Community‘s Morning Prayer for 11 January 2016.)
(**From Seth Godin’s It’s Your Turn.)
(Here are ten questions proffered by Seth Godin in his blog today.)

“After all, a life without a cause is a life without effect.”*

‘For all you care about the artistry, visual polish frequently doesn’t matter if you are getting the story right.’**

You have to wait a long time for things to be perfect, to begin the thing you really want to do, but you can begin a story right now.

A life with cause each is meant to live.

We may try to escape or hide from this, but the future has a habit of visiting us with a path to follow, showing us something of what can be if we follow our curiosities and dreams, choose our niche explorations, and employ our talents.

Such a story is a place of must, where we’ll face our greatest challenges and opponents, yet feel fully alive, finding our greatest power and strength.

The right story defines us and and our contribution.  Yes, there are brighter, more attractive, or easier stories, but the power isn’t there.

‘There are no manuals for the construction of the individual you would like to become.  You are the only one who can decide this and take up the lifetime of work it demands.’^

This life is entered through humility, experienced through gratitude, and lived by faithfulness.

(*Paulo Coelho’s publisher, in Aleph.)
(**From Ed Catmull’s Creativity, Inc..)
(^From John O’Donohue’s Eternal Echoes.)