In practical terms, three rules of thumb are especially useful for harnessing the power of patience as a creative force. The first is to develop a taste for having problems. … The second principle is to embrace radical incrementalism. … The final principle is that, more often than not, originality lies on the far side of unoriginality.*
Oliver Burkeman.

Holiness as in set apart for a purpose.

What are you set apart for?

Oliver Burkeman encourages me to make room in my life for problems, to keep moving, small step by small step, and to learn from and to copy others, if I am to be led into my holiness.

Does it matter if others see something as original? I strongly suspect not. It’s our choice. What matters is that we see something emerging that we had not expected, marked by selflessness, generosity and wisdom.

*From Oliver Burkeman’s Four Thousand Weeks.

This extremely high option of oneself is justified, since this generation will be remembered as the best ever … we are special. There is nothing wrong with knowing this. It is not vanity that this generation exhibits – it’s pride.*

Self-actualisation is possible only as a side-effect of self-transcendence.**
Viktor Frankl

If we’re experiencing a narcissism epidemic, and there are those who believe we are, then it’s both a difficult and a dangerous place to be:

You can’t write — or live — if you imagine the whole world watching over your shoulder, waiting for you to screw up, ready to mock or vilify you. Which, thanks to the internet, it now is.^

One obvious danger is that you have to protect your brand, your self as product, and that means you are both making yourself fragile whilst also imprisoning the possibility of becoming:

Rather than thinking of personality as a “type” you fit into, view it as a continuum of behaviours and attitudes that is flexible, malleable, and based on context.^^

Viktor Frankl believed we have to find our purpose beyond ourselves, towards whom or which we live our lives.

There are many “skills” we might develop in this direction, but two in particular that are helpful are humility – having a true sense of self, but also, and more importantly, others – and towards this, disappearing, so that we can are able to notice more.*^

*Two student participants remarking on results from Jean Twenge‘s research on a narcissism epidemic, from Anna Katharina Schaffner’s The Art of Self-Improvement;
**Viktor Frankl, from Anna Katharina Schaffner’s The Art of Self-Improvement;
^Tim Kreider, from Austin Kleon’s blog: You can’t create under surveillance;
^^From Ben Hardy’s Personality Isn’t Permanent;
*^The hidden place is also where we can ponder the five elemental truths: Life is hard: You are to as special as you think; Your life is not about you; You are to in control; You are going to die.

I’ve previously mentioned an initiative to support the people of Ukraine from the University of Edinburgh and its Chaplaincy that you may be interested in.

This has been inspired by Tatiana, a Ukrainian woman interviewed by the BBC who made the following plea:

We need the world to light up your hearts for Ukraine and for God.

The website has now been published and there is a vigil to take place on Thursday (7th April) in Edinburgh.

One of the things to be encouraged is the growing of sunflowers in as many places around the globe as possible (there’s a map to populate on the website):

We can gather, we can recklessly sow seeds of hope, literally doing so with sunflowers that will bloom with audacity as they salute the sun and sky in freedom.**

*From the guerrillapeaceukraine.org website.

Wrap whatever you must do into a ritual and keep going. If there’s any way I can help, let me know.

On the 1st January 2014, I set out to blog every day for a year as long as I could include a doodle.

At the end of this year, I didn’t want to stop and have continued with only a few planned breaks to blog and doodle every day.

The idea is simple: You have a purpose so big and inspiring it transforms your entire life.*
Ben Hardy

An overnight success almost never is. Might as well plan for the journey.**
Seth Godin

We’re told it’s possible to put a dent in the universe.

This is highly unlikely.

The only one I can think of is the collaborative dent we’re presently working on by messing up your only home.

That being said, it doesn’t mean we can’t live a meaningful life: human consciousness asks of us that we do.

We may search for meaning in ourselves but we’ll be disappointed:

An ethnographer studies others; a flâneur searches for self in others.^

meaning has to be located outside ourselves – discovered in the world rather than in our own psyches … the more we forget ourselves, by dedicating ourselves to an external cause or to people we love the more we actualise ourselves. “Self actualisation,” [Viktor Frankl] sums up, “is possible only as a side-effect of self-transcendence.”^^

So we look around –

Look with all your eyes, look.*^

and we begin to notice we are more curious and interested in some things over others, with echoes of these turning up in our values, our talents and our energies, and so we choose to begin living in these directions.

*From Ben Hardy’s Personality Isn’t Permanent;
**From Seth Godin’s blog: All at once and quite suddenly;
^From Richard Sennett’s Building and Dwelling;
^^From Anna Katharina Schaffner’s The Art of Self Improvement, quoting Viktor Frankl.
*^Jules Verne, from Georges Perec’s An Attempt at Exhausting a Place in Paris.

[C]atastrophization is a reasonable response–until it begins to undermine the work we need to do. … The best way to care is to persist in bending the culture and our systems to improve things over time.*
Seth Godin

A hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself.**
Joseph Campbell

“Don’t turn a mountain into a molehill.”

Bad things happen, but we cannot live in catastrophe: for something to be a catastrophe there has to be a lot of inaccuracy, even untruth present: “I messed up at work, now I’m gong to lose my job.”

The valuable but hard work is using the issue, problem, difficulty, to grow ourselves into our “suchness:”

Here lies the connection between beauty and truth. Beauty is not the opposite of the “ugly,” but of the “false”; it is the sensory statement of the suchness of a thing or a person.^

The opposite of a catastrophe may not be a molehill but one of your finest moments.

*From Seth Godin’s Catastrophisation;
**Joseph Campbell, from Anna Katharina Schaffner’s The Art of Self-Improvement;
^From Erich Fromm’s The Revolution of Hope.

their end-of-the-day fatigue comes from satisfying work and endeavours, not from being shut up in too small a mind-set, job or relationship*
Clarissa Pinkola Estés

because I have eyes, I have the need to see; because I have ears, I have the need to hear; because I have a mind, I have the need to think; and because I have a heart, I have the need to feel.  In short, because I am a man, I am in need of man and of the world**
Erich Fromm

Clarissa Pinkola Estés’ wild women are not out of control, but in their true nature. Equally, Erich Fromm’s multi-gendered “man” is similarly connecting.

We may think of smart phones as providing incredible connectivity, but we have always been instruments of deep connection, as Kelly Bird makes visible when she observes:

Source: Life force. Around us, in us, a wellspring of energy to tap into at any minute.^

As John Muir understood more than a century earlier:

This was my method of study. I drifted from rock to rock, from stream to stream, from grove to grove. … When I discovered a new plant, I sat down beside it for a minute or day, to make its acquaintance and try to hear what it had to say. …. I asked the boulders I met, whence they came from and whither they are going.^^

We may judge this strange talk, but there is nothing stranger than a creature denying its creatureliness, its natural state … disconnected.

*From Clarissa Pinkola Estés’ Women Who Run With the Wolves;
**From Erich Fromm’s The Revolution of Hope:
^From Kelly Bird’s Generative Scribing;
^John Muir, from Philip Newell’s Sacred Earth, Sacred Soul.

Start by learning to recognise what interests you.
Most people have been taught that what they notice doesn’t matter,
So they never learn how to notice,
Not even what interests them.
Or they assume that the world has been completely pre-noticed,
Already sifted and sorted and categorised
By everyone else, by people with real authority.
And so they write about pre-authorised subjects in pre-authorised language.*
Verlyn Klinkenborg

You know what I’m gong to say:

You don’t have to be a writer for these words to lead you into your future.

When you notice what you are noticing and give expression to this, you are forming the path you must walk.

*Verlyn Klinkenborg, quoted in Austin Kleon’s blog: An act of perpetual self-authorisation.

No two human beings ever experience two sensations, experiences, feelings, or thoughts identically. Everything changes. Everything is always different*
Keith Haring

If your music comes from your heart and soul, and if you feel it inside yourself, it will affect others in the same way.**
Robert Schumann

Difference and sameness.

These contrary words from Keith Haring and Robert Schumann set me on a journey of thinking about the general and the specific this morning, taking me back to the beginning of this journey I have find myself on. Knowing the general thing I needed to be about in my work, but not the specific, the thing needing to be discovered within it.

Richard Sennett writes about two people whose lives were generally connected by their valuing of walking, but specifically were quite different:

[Jean-Jacques Rousseau] portrays walking as a spur to contemplation; just for this reason Rousseau liked walking in the country, without the distractions of the city. A contrary kind of walker appeared in the person of Rétif de la Bretonne, Rousseau’s contemporary, who walked the city like a miner prospecting for gold, hoping to enrich his self through immersing himself i unfamiliar scenes.^

The general is important as a place to begin, but the specific is more important as a way to continue.

I have often described my specific path as a journey in the same direction, and, coming upon some words again from Lauren Elkin this morning, have been helped to see how a path can have many turns and directions and yet lead in the same direction, which is towards the centre:

But a labyrinth is actually an arrangement of paths that lead you to their centre. You can’t get lost in them; they are comprised of only one winding corridor. It slows you down. That’s all.^^

The slowness is very important, enabling us to notice more, towards becoming more specific, otherwise we’d keep hurrying generally along.

In a labyrinth, it is possible to feel ourselves very close to the centre but as we continue along its path, we are flung out towards the edges, only later to find ourselves moving towards the centre again. It can feel like many paths for this reason, but we come to understand it to be only one, and it is here that the deepest of changes, the most wonderful of beginnings, can take place.

You will know when it is time to bring to birth
the new creation. The signs will be all around you,
urging, insisting: Now is the time.
You have to know just when to bear down
And concentrate on one thing onl.
It takes labour, hard, hard labour
to bring to birth something new.*^

*From Keith Haring’s Keith Haring Journals;
**From Steve Isserlis’ Robert Schumann’s Advice to Young Musicians;
^From Richard Sennett’s Building and Dwelling;
^^From Lauren Elkin’s Flâneuse;
*^Miriam Therese Winter, quoted in Mary Ruth Broz and Barbara Flynn’s Midwives of an Unnamed Future.

The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; I have a goodly heritage.*

Given the uniqueness of each of us, it should not be surprising that one of the greatest challenges is to inhabit our own individuality and to discover which life-form best expresses it.**
John O’Donohue

Home inventionibus: one who quests.

Within our industrialised systems of education, work and society, there is a distinct possibility that we live well within our boundary lines and heritage.

Our quest, then, is to rediscover these, not only for ourselves, but also for each other.

Here are some words that came together in my reading this morning:

Heroes use systems, they aren’t held back by them.^

Not the usual way we think of heroes. Yes, there’s the danger of watering down the power of heroism, but there is also the possibility of missing the ordinary, often subserve, deeds that people bring into every day.

Oliver Burkeman writes of those who immerse themselves in a hobby:

In an age of instrumentalisation, the hobbyist is a subversive: he insists that some things are worth doing for themselves alone, despite offering no pay-offs in terms of productivity or profit.^^

No productivity!

No profit!

Aaagh!

Philip Newell writes of our quest to rediscover our boundary lines and heritage in nature:

There is hope for the human journey to the extent that we come back into true relationship with the earth’s wildness.^^

Clarissa Pinkola Estés writes of the quest of women to find the wildness of their boundary lines and heritage:

[Women] were kept as fallow gardens … but thankfully there was always wild seed which arrived on the wind.^*

I found myself contemplating this morning’s rising sun as being subversive while it seeped through the trees near my home on an otherwise overcast day: the branches and buds shone like gold. It was on a quest to transform.*^

May you explore to the edges of your boundary lines and goodly heritages, and enable others to rediscover theirs.

*Psalm 16:6;
**From John O’Donohue’s Benedictus;
^From Seth Godin’s blog: The hospitality systems gap;
^From Oliver Burkeman’s Four Thousand Weeks;
*^From Philip Newell’s Sacred Earth, Sacred Soul;
^*From Clarissa Pinkola Estés’ Women Who Run With the Wolves.