Attention residue

when you switch from some Task A to another Task B, your attention doesn’t immediately follow – a residue of your attention remains stuck thinking about the original task*
(Cal Newport)

Will cannot run very far ahead of knowledge, and attention is our daily bread.**
(Iris Murdoch)

Attention is our food.

So if you control someone’s attention do you control them?

We increasingly live in a world built on distraction – emails, notifications, texts, messaging, open work spaces, being constantly connected.

When we’re distracted and turn our attention from one thing to another, neither the first nor the second is attended to very well. This is “attention residue” and it prevents us from doing our best work – perhaps we can also include building stronger relationships, collaborations, compassionate initiatives … .

Instead of being controlled by distraction, attractive life and work is about drawing near what we’re noticing, enabling us to bring out and to receive the fullness of whatever it is, (from the verb attrahere, from ad- “to” and trahere “draw”).

Now we’re bringing the strongest Self to the game.

(*From Cal Newport’s Deep Work.)
(**From Iris Murdoch’s The Sovereignty of Good.)

It works!

Colouring is an art technique that allows us to relax. As we colour, the outside world fades, our breathing slows and deepens. We’re free of distraction and allowing to come to us whatever needs to.

I was delighted, then, to receive this message from Lisa who has turned to colouring the doodles in Slow Journeys in the Same Direction whilst in lockdown:

I have been struggling with my attention span this last week – too much news to consume, kids to manage, no alone time … . So I spent some time colouring your doodle book. I calmed right down and was able to journal for a bit and then read. It was a relief. I shall be doing more colouring!

If you want to pick up a copy for yourself, it’s available online to be delivered to you; just follow this link. It’s only £4.99 and Lisa’s just dropped me a line to let me know postage is free right now!

As far as I’m aware, it is the only colouring book with online content to expand and explore.

I got rhythm*

The time when I have stopped drawing, put my arms down, turned around to connect with the speaker, paused, tuned in to the moment – whether to notice rain on the roof or the light bouncing on a wall at a certain angle or the cool temperature of the air – are when my internal rhythms start to slow down, to make way for a finer sensibility to come online, my aperture of awareness opens, and more of the moment can come through me.**
(Kelvy Bird)

Having practiced some of the visual scribing Kelvy Bird excels at, I know how special is the place she’s describing. Visual scribes can find themselves deluged by a relentless torrent of information needing to be captured and expressed. To think of stopping drawing and letting arms fall is almost unthinkable, and it’s why I don’t do it too often as it’s so tiring.

Yet what Bird describes is the presencing of ability that she has honed for so many years, making it possible for her to relax into her natural rhythms.

Through life, we all have been developing our own natural rhythms, and to take the time to notice just what these are and how they’re comprised will be invaluable. Lydia Davis’ words about writing connect for me here in a wider sense:

Always work (note, write) from your own interest, never from what you think you should be noting, or writing. Trust your own interest. […] Be mostly self-taught. There is a great deal to be learned from programmes, courses, and teachers. But I suggest working equally hard, throughout your life, at learning new things on your own, from whatever sources seem most useful to you.^

What are your interests? How have they developed through the years? Where have these things brought you to? Can you feel your rhythm?

My more focused read for April will be Cal Newport’s Deep Work. Not only are we thinking about rhythm, but how rhythm is forged in our deepest work. The opposite of deep is, of course, shallow, and too much of our technologically generated work is shallow, exacerbated by distraction:

The ability to perform deep work is becoming increasingly rare at a time it is becoming increasingly valuable in our economy.^^

My interest, though, is primarily in personal value rather than economic value, as Joseph Campbell articulates for me:

The ultimate aim of the quest must be neither release nor ecstasy for oneself, but the wisdom and power to serve others.*^

There’s never been a better time not only to identify or discover your rhythms, with all their attendant skills and passions and experiences, but also to develop these more widely and deeply:

Men of genius themselves were great only by bringing all their power to bear on the on on which they had decided to show their full measure.^*

Unless your “deep” is technology, you’ll need to switch it off. Deep work, the focusing on something and not everything, requires brain circuits to be isolated in order to fire again and again, leading to the wrapping and insulating of the circuit with myelin. If you’re listening to music, or being distracted by the phone, you’re not able to isolate the circuit and deep will evade you.

(*The music in my head is George Gershwin’s I Got Rhythm, here sung by the incomparable Ella Fitzgerald. I had to turn it off after a while so I could focus.)
(**From Kelvy Bird’s Generative Scribing.)
(^From The Literary Hub’s article: Lydia Davis: Ten of My Recommendations for Good Writing Habits.)
(^^From Cal Newport’s Deep Work.)
(*^From Joseph Campbell and Bill Moyers’ The Power of Myth.)
(^*Antonin-Dalmace Sertillanges, quoted in Cal Newport’s Deep Work.)

Reset

Why This? Why You? Why Now? Three simple questions we are often reluctant to answer.*
(Bernadette Jiwa)

How can we not see what our eyes behold? As our perceptions become more and more coordinated, we grow in justice.**
(M. C. Richards)

We are possibly looking at months, rather than weeks, of lockdown in our response to Covid19.

This could be one of the severest interruptions to life as normal on planet Earth in peacetime, or it could be the greatest unimagined and uninvited opportunity to change things for the better.

Drawn from her experience of the potter’s wheel, with its four movements -up-down and in-out, M. C. Richards suggests four ways towards a more centred life to benefit everyone: the via positiva is the way of perception, the via negativa is the way of acceptance, the via creativa is the way of imagination and the via tranformativa is the way of justice – for the planet and all of its species.

The artist-of-the-future will be the person who is able to increasingly centre their life through all of these ways pursued as one, helpfully pictured in the labyrinth which, whilst taking many directions on its way to the centre, is only one path:

But a labyrinth is actually an arrangement of paths that lead you, in time, to their centre. You can’t get lost in them; they are comprised of only now winding corridor. It slows you down, that’s all.^

We cannot accept without perceiving, cannot imagine without accepting, cannot transform without imagining.

So we slow down.

(*From Bernadette Jiwa’s The Story of telling blog: Why This? Why You? Why Now?)
(**From M. C. Richard’s Centering.)
(^From Lauren Belkin’s Flâneuse
.)

The story isn’t over until it’s over

All stories take the form of a Quest. To understand the Quest form of your story, penetrate the psychology of your protagonist and find an honest answer to the question: “What does he or she want?”*
(Robert McKee)

You’re not done yet. Your story isn’t yet complete. The journey continues.

Don’t celebrate prematurely, thinking you’ve reached the goal of your potential. Don’t give up, thinking you’ll never make it, when there’s more to come.

We must continue to pursue what we have found in our hearts: the quest we must never give up on.

Keep turning up.

Follow your plan – until it needs to be adapted or clarified.

The obstacle is often found to be the way:

When the dark clouds come … keep going.^

There are so many other scripts we’ll be tempted to follow, those written for us by others, the expectations of our society and culture, but there’s a reason the universe has made it possible for you to form your dream.

In her letter to young readers, Ruth Ann Harnisch writes of her superpower:

More words, more power. […] The more I read, the more I become myself, an individual with ideas. […] As long as I can read, I can unlock the secrets of the world. It’s my best superpower.^

The more words we have for what we seek and we do, the more ideas we will have, the more ways of seeing our way through, the stronger we’ll become, and the more service we can be to others.

(*Robert McKee’s newsletter: The Complex Simplicity of Story.)
(**From Charlie Mackesy’s The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse.)
(^From Ruth Ann Harnisch‘s letter to young readers, in Maria Popova and Claudia Bedrick’s A Velocity of Being.)

More than just the right answers

Every electron is identical, but every love is different. [… In one sense, a novel is not complete until it has been read. And each reader completes the novel in a different way.*
(Alan Lightman)

Getu walked barefoot for over five hundred miles to escape from Ethiopia for Sudan to try and find a new life. Later he emigrated to the United States and now shines shoes in Charlotte International Airport.

Look more closely at the story and we’ll find that Getu is responsible for thirty three shoe-shiners in three airports. Getting the right shine takes a twelve-step process, the last being a final shine that the delighted customer gets to take away.

Look even more closely and there’s even more preparation:

Love and compassion. That’s how we do it. We do it from the heart. People come not just to get a shine, but to talk with us. When you have an open heart and mind, people always have something to leave. You must be positive. That’s the way of winning. You say thank you for everybody who makes a difference in your life.**

Whatever we do, life is richer when we build relationship. We may not feel we’re great at doing this. We hesitate, can’t find the words to say, but people appreciate the attempts we make:

“Sometimes I think you believe in me more than I do,” said the boy. “You’ll catch up,” said the horse.^

(*From Alan Lightman’s A Sense of the Mysterious.)
(**Getu Marsha, quoted in the Charlotte Observer’s article: Man Who Fled Ethiopia Barefoot Offers Shoe Shines, Inspiration.)
(^From Charlie Mackesy’s The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse.)

4G living

Gifts create connection and possibility, but not all gifts have monetary value. In fact, some of the most important gifts involve time, effort and care instead.*
(Seth Godin)

Gratitude, gladness, gifts, generosity.

Zing is the word I enjoy using to describe each person’s unique energy connecting them with the infinite game that life is meant to be; these 4 Gs help us get there:

Gratitude for what we have and all that is around us:

Ideas do not belong to people. Ideas live in the world as we do. We discover certain ideas at certain times.**

Gladness that comes from a deep integration of these.

Every morning I is going out and snitching new dreams to put in my bottles.^

Gifts being the things that emerge from the depths of gratitude and gladness in our lives, with the ultimate gift being ourselves:

“If you is really wanting to know what I am doing in your village,” the BFG said, “I is loosing a dream into the bedroom of those children. […] I is a dream-blowing giant”^

Here is generosity, the life that cannot help but give.

Go play.

(*From Seth Godin’s blog: Generous isn’t always the same as free.)
(**From M. C. Richard’s Centering.)
(^The Big Friendly Giant in Roald Dahl’s The BFG.)