I’d forgotten all about that

We don’t come into this world to sleep. We come to awaken, and awaken again, and to grow and evolve. So the calling is always a calling to grow, to contribute, to bring more of that vitality of life energy into the world or back into the world.*
Robert Dilts

A year ago,
I told the story of how Togonese women would
create a song for newborn babies,
To be sung to them at times in their lives when
they had forgotten their truth.

At the close of a dreamwhispering journey, I ask
my dreamwhisperers to tell me the story
emerging from
the discoveries of our journey of conversations together.
Last night, I found myself awake and
contemplating my own story,
And I thought to recite it
before I fell asleep once more as I realised that
I had never spoken it in this way before.

It didn’t take me too long,
And to “speak” it rather than write it was helpful;
I found myself making new connections promising
new possibilities,
A story that continued to ask for my heart and soul.

Why not remember your story, and
if I can help, let me know.

*Stephen Gilligan and Robert Dilts’ The Hero’s Journey.

Learning-lines

We imagine a wild theology that doesn’t limit itself to Plato and Aquinas but also consults the wisdom of rainbow trout and sea turtles, seasons and tides.*
Brian McLaren

We recognise the achievement when we learn as much as we can
within some field or domain or speciality;
It is something greater still to learn from someone else’s.
Although we cannot possibly learn everything,
Something quite extraordinary becomes available to us:
The present emerging ecology of minds and psyches,
our availability to each other,
and our ability to dream one another’s dreams
and experience one another’s biographies
are part of the interpenetrating fractal wave
of the current time, psyche, and memory.
We are being rescaled to planetary proportions,
as we become fractal resonant
and intimate with our own depths.**

We are learners of the universe.
Perhaps there is a learning-line for each of us,
A path of learning that chooses and calls us
when we open ourselves to curiosity and discovery,
Lines crossing the boundaries and barriers
we ordinarily lay down:
“Blessed are the curious for
they will have adventures.”*

*Brian McLaren’s God Unbound; quote anonymous);
**Jean Houston’s A Mythic Life.

Journal-ishing

In mediaeval Christian monasteries, the act of copying and illuminating libraries of manuscripts, of putting wisdom and prayer to paper, was see as a spiritual process in itself.*
Kassia St Clair

The earliest artists worked within the outlines of their imaginations, the later reworked their imaginations.**
James Carse

I hadn’t come across BuJo until
someone mentioned they had discovered
Bullet Journaling as a way to help them
in working through their thoughts.
I’ve often written about journaling as a means of
extending our minds and
connecting us with our stories,
enabling us to embrace and wrestle with
failures and mistakes, with
opportunities and possibilities –
all that’s happening, that you’re noticing, that you’re reading or listening to.
Barbara Bash writes about how
handwriting in the twenty first century comes to us as
a means of connecting our inner and outer worlds.^
It’s a gift no matter how we might use it –
There’s not only one way of journaling, there are as many
as there are people.^^
It may not be classic journaling –
It may be journal-ish –
But if it works for you,
Ish may be absolutely good enough.

Kassia St Clair’s The Secret Lives of Colour;
**James Carse’s Finite and Infinite Games;
^Barbara Bash’s article: The Simple Joy of Writing by Hand;

^^Here are some possibilities from Austin Kleon and in the form of the commonplace book.

Go inspire yourself

Never mind searching for who you are. Search for the person you aspire to be.*
Richard Brault

The imagination awakens the wildness of the heart.**
John O’Donohue

There are those who are waiting for inspiration to come from
someone, somewhere,
But a great place to begin
is to look within:
Notice what’s already there and
listen to the stories of how it got to be there,
Add plenty of imagination,
And, noticing what can be,
Take small steps to move in that direction.

Attention requires cunning passivity.^

*Ben Hardy’s Personality Isn’t Permanent;
**John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty;
^Verlyn Klinkenborg’s Several short sentences about writing.

Imperfect, quirky you

Imperfect and proud of it.*
Seth Godin

Quirky a. having or characterised by peculiar or unexpected traits or aspects.

Within every person lies
an endeavour worthy of
endless pursuit**.

This has many names –
Calling, vocation, bliss, element, dream, purpose, mission, must … –
But what I want to highlight today is that
when we notice what this is, then
we can grow it
endlessly.

*Seth Godin’s blog: Craft and imperfection;
**Katherine Morgan Schafner’s The Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control.

I’m sorry

Knowledge of the self is as immortal as knowledge of the external world.*
Ken Robinson

You desire truth in the inward being; therefore teach me wisdom in my secret heart.**

There are obstructions on the path before us, and
when things go wrong we end up apologising, but
this can be more of a reflexive reaction.
The thing is, there are obstructions inside of us, too, and
humility ends up being the best way not only of
dealing with these, but also for
uncovering and embracing
the more that lies within each of us.

*Ken Robinson’s Out of Our Minds;
**Psalm 51:6
.

Now

Discovering the right medium is often a tidal moment in the creative life of an individual. … Creativity can be inhibited by the wrong medium.*
Ken Robinson

What awe call the beginning is often the end. And to make an end is to make a beginning. The end is were we begin from.**
T. S. Eliot

Except that life is not linear –
Because an end can be a beginning, and
we are capable of shaping our own
enriching environments, together with
every person having talents to
be developed,
There’s never been a better time than now
to begin.

*Ken Robinson’s Out of Our Minds;
**Ben Hardy’s Personality Isn’t Permanent.

Not bad

We realise our toughest task in life is self-analysis as we try to fathom our humanity and bring peace to the wars within.*
Robert McKee

Figure out what you are meant to contribute to the world and make sure you contribute it.**
Susan Cain

The greater battles lie within.
Though some go through life at war with themselves,
Some of the most astonishing human contributions
emerge from the lives of those who
seek to make peace with who they are and
what they have on
a daily basis.
Whilst from a distance making war and making peace
may not look dissimilar,
Up close, the person who seeks peace looks upon their day,
Expressing the words of worship, of
worthship:
Not bad,
not bad at all.

*Robert McKee’s newsletter: The Thrill of a Thriller;
**Susan Cain’s Quiet.

Keeping the channel open

We see the world not as it is, but as we are.*
Steven Covey

We see the world not as it is, but through a veil of perceptions.**
Ken Robinson

There is so much more world out there,
There is so much more in you to bring into the world;
We must keep the channel open –
In this we are poetic learners –
As in creative:
Poetry … is not to be confused with versification. …
It is about learning the rhythm of the earth.^

Not only the earth,
Also the rhythm to be found with
each other, our god if we hold to one, and
to ourselves.
To this end, we must bring intention of ritual, as
the ancients did, though time has passed, and
we must find new ways:
You must have a room, or a certain hour or so a day,
where you don’t know what was in the newspapers that morning,
you don’t know who your friends are,
you don’t know what you owe anybody,
you don’t know what anybody owes to you.
This is a place where you can simply experience
and bring forth what you are and what you might be.
This is the place of creative incubation.
At first you may find that nothing happens there.
But if you have a sacred place and use it,
something eventually will happen.^^

*Ben Hardy’s Personality Isn’t Permanent;
**Ken Robinson’s Out of Our Minds;
^Philip Newell’s Sacred Earth, Sacred Soul;
^^Joseph Campbell, from Austin Kleon’s blog: The Bliss Station.

How small is your dream?

Never be limited by the small dreams others have for you.*
Bernadette Jiwa

Are you holding yourself to, and judging yourself by, standards of productivity or performance that are impossible to meet? One common symptom of the fantasy of some day achieving total mastery over time is that we set ourselves inherently impossible targets for our use of it – targets that must always be postponed into the future, since they can never be met in the present.**
Oliver Burkeman

By dream I mean
purpose and meaning, which
I hope will be both big and small for you:
Big to sustain you for a fulfilling life,
Small so that you can give expression of it today
and every day.
If you have to keep putting it off, then
something is probably not right,
It may not be your dream.
If dreamwhispering can help, let me know.

*Bernadette Jiwa’s What Great Storytellers Know;
**Oliver Burkeman’s Four Thousand Weeks.