We need to see the subtle difference between the truth and the true. Truth is about accuracy, whilst being true is about intention.*
Erwin McManus

The dream of prayer and art is to come nearer, even to slip through to dwell for a while in the vicinity of the essence.**
John O’Donohue

Yesterday, my wife and I
found ourselves on the wrong end
of the M6 motorway being closed all day;
It wasn’t that we had an impossible task returning home, but
it was going to take longer and
put on a load more miles.

If you find yourself wondering if you’re in the wrong place,
Or doing the wrong work, or you’ve made a critical mistake,
Or have lost that sense of purpose that once was yours,
The good news is that
returning to where you need to be is not impossible,
It’s just inconvenient, and yet,
Being true to yourself is always worth it.

*Erwin McManus’ The Genius of Jesus;
**John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty.

(This is Friday’s blog and doodle (30 June): I must have got distracted at the important part of actually posting it! Apologies.)

Without mythic keys we have neither culture nor religion, no art, architecture, drama, ritual, epic, social customs, or mental disorders. We would have only a grey world, with little if anything calling us forward to that strange and beautiful country that recedes even as we try to civilise it.*
Jean Houston

Whenever we attempt something difficult there is always a sense that we have to wake some slumbering giant inside ourselves, some greater force as yet hidden from us.**
David Whyte

All that we think of as human life
Resides upon story –
Stories we tell ourselves collectively, and
individually.

David Whyte tells us that work is a story that
provides us with safety from
“the wilder, nonhuman forces of existence,”**
And Robin Wall Kimmerer’s telling of the Skywoman myth
assures us that we will survive:
we are always falling …
spinning into someplace new and unexpected.
Despite our fears of falling,
the gifts of the world stand by to catch us.^

Our stories help us to understand our falls,
To pick ourselves up,
And to keep going.

Whyte goes on to ponder the modern-day lives that have become
mythical for us:
Parks, Churchill, King, Mandela,
How they were simply living into or upon
their own stories –
Something we too must aspire to;
Not to live their lives, for we cannot,
But to daily live upon our stories.

*Jean Houston’s A Mythic Life;
**David Whyte’s Crossing the Unknown Sea;
^Robin Wall Kimmerer’s Braiding Sweetgrass.

A good conversation is a constant stream of unexpected responses.*
Tim Harford

*Tim Harford’s Messy.

My hunger for freedom is my hunger for myself, my hunger for my creative initiative.*
M. C. Richards

*M. C. Richards’ Centering.

conversation (n.) mid-14c., “place where one lives or dwells,” also “general course of actions or habits, manner of conducting oneself in the world,” both senses now obsolete; from Old French conversacion “behaviour, life, way of life, monastic life” 

In the farmhouse all those years ago, I stumbled into conversational intimacy with a stranger and felt the whole course of my life pivot in the encounter.*
David Whyte

Conversations are becoming endangered –
Texts and voicemails and tweets are pushing them
to the edges of our lives,
Small screens in buggies cause us
to wonder where the skills will be learned.

We are losing the
“I had no idea we were going to
talk about this when we began” for
“I’ll tell you what I think (and
I’m not interested in what you think)” –
At-ness not with-ness.

I have a sense, though, that
conversation will make a comeback because
we are human, and
this is where we desire to live most of all:
I’ve found that every want
can be distilled down into one:
connection.**

(Dreamwhispering is,
Firstly and foremostly
a journey of conversations.)

*David Whyte’s Crossing the Unknown Sea;
**Katherine Morgan Schafner’s The Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control.

When you’re present, you don’t have control, and you don’t care. When you’re connected to your power, you don’t need control. … What matters is that you understand that being open is powerful.*
Katherine Morgan Schafler

Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.**
Viktor Frankl

The fourth elemental truth^ states
You are not in control,
And yet this does not mean that you are not
powerful;
Learning for life,
The endless openness to more,
Without and within, is about
learning to be powerful –
Openness provides choice and
choice is powerful:
Education is personal or it is nothing.^^

Surely we ought to know our minds?,
Doesn’t openness suggest weakness?

We learn to be our own person,
Our true person, and using the
whole of life rather than some smaller part
to make this so:
A creative person.
initiating, enacting.
Using their lifetime to find
their original face,
to awaken their own voice,
beyond all learning, habit, thought.
When the human community finally knows itself,
it will discover that it lives at the centre.
People will be artists in their life and labour.*^

*Katherine Morgan Schafler’s The Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control;
**Ben Hardy’s Be Your Future Self Now;
^Richard Rohr’s Adam’s Return;
^^Ken Robinson’s Out of Our Minds;
*^M. C. Richards’ Centering; I have replaced Mary Richards’ use of the masculine pronoun to highlight this is for everyone.

It is the nature of the earth and our dust to be in constant contact with the impulse of life. If we listen, we will hear the continuous tread of love, moving up our limbs like sap, like an electric current impelling is to “stir and step out.”*
M. C. Richards

Art is the human act of doing something that might not work and causing change to happen. Work that matters. For people who care. Not for applause, not for money. But because we can.**
Seth Godin

When it comes to what to ask,
Which door to knock on,
Where to begin looking,
What is already inside of us will guide us.

The inside of you is akin to the warehouse
pictured at the close of
Indiana Jones and the Lost Ark.

What you have to ask,
The doors you will knock,
The places you look
will make the kind of difference that
we need.

Notice it and focus it:
How much of the beauty of
our own lives is about
the beauty of being alive?
How much of it is
conscious and intentional?
That is the big question.^

*M. C. Richards’ Centering;
**Seth Godin’s The Practice;
^Joseph Campbell from Joseph Campbell and Bill Moyers’ The Power of Myth.

Each of us is a voyager. This is what the universe invites us to be in our lives and relationships, because the universe keeps changing, unfolding, evolving.*
Philip Newell

When we get to where we’re going … perhaps we should stop. Unless the going was the point.**
Seth Godin

*Philip Newell’s Sacred Earth, Sacred Soul;
**Seth Godin’s blog: When we get to where we’re going.

This is the song of significance. This is what motivates people to do the work that can’t be automated, mechanised, or outsourced. And this is the song that humans yearn to sing together.*
Seth Godin

For I know no trouble in life which does not stand as a counterpoint to some positive capacity.**
M. C. Richards

Significance grows in the soil of humility;
If we embrace who we are –
Not grasping for more than we are or
less than we are –
Then we find freedom in who we are and:
Innovation is the child of freedom and
the parent of prosperity.^

Which brings us to another reality:
Significance grows towards need;
What we love to do will
change someone’s life for the better.

*Seth Godin’s The Song of Significance;
M. C. Richards’s Centering;
^Matt Ridley’s How Innovation Works.

And so it’s worth asking: what actions – what acts of generosity or car for the world, what ambitious schemes for investments in the distant future – might it be meaningful to undertake today, if you would come to terms with never seeing the results?*
Oliver Burkeman

If you’ve signed yup for way finding, forgive yourself if it takes a little (or a lot) longer. Because if we knew the right answer we’ll have found it already. That’s the hard part.**
Seth Godin

… can you help?

I may need to pass this on to you,
If time runs out;
Not to do it the exact same way,
but somehow,
In your way,
To keep making the gift available
to whoever knows it is for them.

*Oliver Burkeman’s Four Thousand Weeks;
**Seth Godin’s blog: The wayfinding premium.