Artistry

The artist rarely says, “I’d like to do less.” Instead, she wonders how to contribute more, because the very act of creativity is the point of the work.*
Seth Godin

True perseverance … is flanked by the ancient values: courage and values.**
Anna Katharina Schaffner

To contribute is the point,
The desire to give and
somehow, somewhere, for someone
to make things better,
Beautiful, even,
Something mythical, leaving us in
no doubt that we are
alive.

*Seth Godin’s blog: But what could you learn instead;
**Anna Katharina Schaffner’s The Art of Self-Improvement.

What do you see?

Lao-tzu recommended that we let go of all those social conventions that interfere with our authenticity and that hamper our spontaneity and creativity.*
Anna Katharina Schaffner

Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.**
James Baldwin

When you’ve been slowly but
surely working on your
humility and
generosity and
faithfulness, you can better trust
the solution you have to be
selfless and
generous and
wise –
The kind of things problems
don’t like at all.

*Anna Katharina Schaffner’s The Art of Self-Improvement;
**Bina Venkataraman’s The Optimist’s Telescope.

The best thoughts of all

If the One, the True, Being, the Good and the Beautiful were to vanish, the thought in the mind would have no pathway to the world.*
John O’Donohue

The best way to predict the future is to invent it.**
Alan Kay

We are always in need of
beautiful ideas to lead us out of being
trapped
caught
dead-ended
pointless
hopeless
Pinched
depressed
repressed
unimpressed
overcome
clueless
directionless;
Not all ideas are equally worthy and are able to
align with:
Being – deepest reality of all that is,
The One – everything that exists is somehow
bound together,
The True – that whatever our reality, it is
true and our experience real,
The Good – participating in the soul
of the world,
The Beautiful – the truest and most
real expression that
lifts us, and, of course,
The idea is moving through
us.

*John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty;
**Seth Godin’s The Carbon Almanac.

Rewritten

what if we simply took whatever pain we couldn’t get rid of, and turned it into something else*
Susan Cain

With … choice comes a remarkable sort of freedom. The freedom to be still, to become aware and to stop hiding from the living that’s yet to be done.**
Seth Godin

Because our lives are stories, we
can rewrite them, not in
some fantastical way, but,
“This has happened to me” full stop! can
become “This happened to me, and now
I choose …”;
Writing it out is better than
thinking about it, using
pen and paper is better than
some electrical device,
Mornings are good times,
Reminding us that this will
need repeating;
It will be costly, but
time and effort always win.


*Susan Cain’s Bittersweet;
**Seth Godin’s blog: And maybe it’s enough.

The one thing

You are the only you that has ever lived; your idiom is the only idiom of its. kind in all of existence and if you cannot hear the sound of the genuine in you, you will all of your life spend your days on the ends of the strings that somebody else pulls …*
Brian McLaren

It most likely boils down to
one thing, the
one thing behind everything else
that we imagine and do, the one thing we keep
returning to in order to
orientate our lives towards
meaning and purpose;
It’s useful to write it down
every so often, and then
make it happen in
any which we we can.

*Brian McLaren’s Faith After Doubt.

Deep souls

No wonder some of our parents forgot to mention soul, as it is apt to distract from Serious Goals and Aspirations. It is as playful and illogical as a kitten, as watchful as God or a baby. It rubs its back lazily against trees. It stops and gasps at beauty and is bathed in it. And sometimes it begins to weep.*
Anne Lamott

Your soul is much larger than you!  You are just along for the ride. When you learn to live there, you will learn to live with everyone and everything else too.**
Richard Rohr

Who taught you about soul?

I bet they were bigger than the
people around them, more
fun, more
inquisitive, more
effusive, more
in wonderment, more
loving, more
forgiving, more
more.

*Anne Lamott’s Dusk Night Dawn;
**Richard Rohr’s Immortal Diamond.

In anticipation

What most of us don’t realise is that when a story grabs us, that conflict, and its resolution, becomes ours.*
Lisa Cron

The only thing that is doing the thing is doing the thing.**
Loopy

Stories are how we live our lives, and we can even be drawn into
stories that are not ours – attentively listening to
A friend or watching a movie can find us anticipating and
experiencing what is happening;
We can find ourselves experiencing our own story as
we tell it or write it down, but,
As amazing as our bodies and minds are for transporting us
into a story, all of the imagining and feeling are there for one thing only,
And that is doing it.

*Lisa Cron’s Story Or Die;
**James Clear’s 3-2-1 newsletter: On the joy of losing, how to set expectations with others, and notes to myself.

Enter stage right

And so I began to grapple with the truth that people-pleasers are prone to resist until it halfway kills them: that very often the best way to benefit others is to focus on doing your thing.*
Oliver Burkeman

Why are people gonna be glad they saw your show? And whatever your answer is, rehearse it, grow it, feed into it, make it the main thing.**
Gabe Anderson

How long have you been
holding back on what you have
to give?

Not wanting to upset others, or
sound jarring, or be misunderstood or
be hurt?

Ignoring or missing
your cue to bring what only
you can?

I do it so to compensate for something I think is missing in the common message. My public writing is a counterpoint to complement the popular point. Of course, I don’t think the stuff I say is the only way to go. I’m just the counter melody.^

There it is again: your cue to
enter stage right (or left or
from above or below) – or will you miss it, again?

How do you measure on this little test –
How curious and questioning are you, how deep is
your gladness, how much of you is present in this moment?

Curiosity is one way we know that our souls are functioning. So is deep gladness. So is presence.^^

*Oliver Burkeman’s Meditations for Mortals;
**Gabe Anderson’s blog: They Want a Great Time;
^Derek Sivers’ Hell Yeah or No;
^^Anne Lamott’s Dusk Night Dawn.

I want to be alone

To do anything that suggested a taste for solitude, even to go for a walk by yourself, was always slightly dangerous. There was a word for it in Newspeak: OWN LIFE it was called, meaning individualism and eccentricity.*
George Orwell

If I chose to hide you away, it is for a reason.
I have brought you to this place.
Drink in the silence. Seek solitude.

Listen to the silence.

It will teach you. It will build strength
Let others share it with you.
It is little to be found elsewhere.

Silence will speak more to you in a day than the world of voices can teach you in a lifetime.
Find silence. Find solitude – and having discovered her riches, bind her to your heart.

Frances Roberts

The person happy to be alone is
indeed a dangerous person for
they shall know and be themself,
Untethered, unattached,
Not to do their own thing, but
to bring their different and best for others.

The ultimate aim of the quest must be neither release nor ecstasy for oneself, but the wisdom and power to serve others.^

*George Orwell’s 1984;
**The Northumbria Community‘s Morning Prayer;
^Joseph Campbell, from Jospeh Campbell and Bill Moyers’ The Power of Myth.

Journeys and journals

Detached self-observation is essential for knowing our emotional selves. Such self-observation entails stepping back from our experience … Via trials, tribulations, and illuminating revelations, the hero’s journey chronicles the transformation of consciousness from a state of unawarenesss to a state of deep self-understanding.*
Anna Katharina Schaffner

The ultimate aim of the quest must be neither release nor ecstasy for oneself, but the wisdom and power to serve others.*
Joseph Campbell

A journey traditionally references our travel in a day – something different
for each of us; a journal is
our capturing and reflecting upon that travel, revealing
we are more than our activity, we are also
an observer of ourself for the sake of others
These together provide our balance, our dynamic and static:
We experience the journey differently when reflecting upon it, in turn
enabling us to be more reflective in
the throes of the journey.

*Anna Katharina Schafner’s The Art of Self-Improvement;
**Joseph Campbell and Bill Moyers’ The Power of Myth.