Movement gets us unstuck. It restores agency by giving us a feeling we’re acting on our situation.*
Bruce Feiler

although it may appear paradoxical, in order to acquire a profound view of things, you must first of all move randomly**
Federico Castigliano

When stuck,
Don’t stay where you are,
Don’t try and double-down on forced focus –
Move,
Wander,
Discover,
Imagine,
Create, and then,
Return.

*Bruce Feiler’s Life Is In the Transitions;
**Federico Castigliano’s Flâneur.

The fairy godmother replied that true magic is to help each thing become it’s best and most free self.*
Rebecca Solnit

A daemon is a calling, obsession, a source of lasting and sometimes manic energy. … when you are looking for a vocation, you are looking for a daemon. … You are trying to find that tension or problem that arouses great waves of moral, spiritual and relational energy.**
David Brooks

To become our best self –
Our True Self –
It is highly likely that
we will need to identify a cause:
Not any old cause,
Not someone else’s cause,
But one that is deeply personal
and will make the world better.

*Rebecca Solnit’s Cinderella Liberator;
**David Brooks’ The Second Mountain.

It may not be god for you,
It may be the universe,
But to know that our time here has
made a difference for someone, somewhere,
and this, as it were,
Has been noticed by someone or something
greater than us
matters.

There is not better place to
uncover this than in the
stillness and silence
That the universe
or god
supply to us in
extravagant amounts.

Out of our stillness and knowing,
We understand that we have much to share that
others need,
And others have much to share that
we need.

Be still and know.

To know our past,
Know our Future,
know our present.

Be still.

It’s hard to be
if we cannot find our stillnesses,
Silences,
Spaces
between the noise and the busyness
to reflect upon our being and
becoming.

Be.

A wonderfully provocative word:
What we are – a Human be-ing,
Loving who we are – be-coming,
Endless choice – to be or not to be.

The only essential is this: the gift must always move.*
Lewis Hyde

If we receive all that we have
as a gift from others –
Whether that is how they intended it
or not –
If we have thankful minds, then
we have so much to give,
Though not necessarily in the
form in which we received these
gifts.

Bruce Feiler** offers seven tools
for navigating transitions that
I found myself reflecting on as means for
transitioning the gifts we receive into
gifts that we give –
I thought you may like to have
a play with these, too:
Accept the transition (the received as gift),
Ritualise it (habits of reflecting and reimagining)
Give up old mindsets (about the things we have),
Try new things (experiment in giving),
Seek wisdom from others(find out what others are doing),
Unveil a new self (expect the practice to be transformative),
Compose a new story (more dramatic and compelling).

*Lewis Hyde’s The Gift;
**Bruce Feiler’s Life Is In the Transitions.

Beginning precedes us, creates us and constantly takes us to new levels and places and people.*
John O’Donohue

Grant me serenity
As day breaks from night
Grant my shadows grace
And a cradle of light**
Lemn Sissay

Some beginnings come from without,
Others from within;
The latter is a skill of thinking
that we can develop,
So whilst I’ve just
moved home, moved
country, moved
from work to
retirement,
You don’t have to do any of these
to begin,
Only imagine the smallest iteration
of what you want to begin and
do it .

*John O’Donohue’s Benedictus;
**Lemn Sissay’s Let the light pour in.

My word is frustration …
At being put on hold for the umpteenth time
during the third attempt to transfer my BT account
to our new address;
Doodling certainly helped me keep
calm.