Something amazing, I guess*

And actually every human being is the hero of a drama … . Here is a person born with certain gifts, and usually fails, and his life is tremendous struggle to make something out of which he is born with; fighting against tremendous handicaps.**
Erich Fromm

When we finally get the hang of
the gifts and
failures and
limitations of our lives, something
amazing occurs – and,
Of course,
We never really get the hang of it, but,
That’s where the alchemy happens.

*The Incredibles;
*Erich Fromm’s The Art of Listening.

The genius in all of us*

Genius is inseparable from the creative process. The word “genius” is expressive of the capacity to be generative. The genius gives birth to something new. The genius creates. … The genius speaks the future into existence.**
Erwin McManus

The myths, when they are translated into rites, organise the field.^
Joseph Campbell

There is something each of us that
our lives want to give expression to –
Something that feeds us with energy when we
engage.

My joy is to help people identify and
organise their genius;
I have a few spaces available
for the beginning of 2024, and
I will share a little more after Christmas:
Watch this space.

*David Shenk’s The Genius In All of Us;
**Erwin McManus’ The Genius of Jesus;
^Joseph Campbell’s The Hero’s Journey.

The perfect life?

The drive for equilibrium becomes a character’s super-objective.*
Robert McKee

It turns out the acute angles, rough edges and the imperfect matches of diversity actually work better. Especially when you’re dealing with a human.**
Seth Godin

It’s there in so many stories:
The protagonist finds herself in
a challenging, unfamiliar world, and
all she wants to bring about is a
return to her known, predictable existence,
Only to find that she must play
this story out;
But it will be here that she will face her
demons and daemons, and
she will either die or
be reborn with
renewed sensitivity towards surprise and possibility.

*Robert McKee’s Character;
**Seth Godin’s blog: Cobbled together.

Wild wandering

Look everywhere for difference … See the earth as source, … celebrate the genius in others, be not prepared against but for surprise.*
James Carse

Here is my desire,
To live this wilder existence
in clear view of the everyday and ordinary,
Which are never this and anything but –
Amen, amen.

*James Carse’s Finite and Infinite Games (my italics).

It’s a wonder-full life

When we satisfy our need for wild awe, it is good for our minds; we concentrate better, handle stresses with more resilience, and perform better on cognitive tests of different kinds.*
Dacher Keltner

The walks were magical and full of delight. Mr. Tayer seemed to have absolutely no self-consciousness, and he was always being carried away by wonder and astonishment over the simplest things. He was constantly and literally falling into love. … “Jeanne, look at the caterpillar. Ahhhhh!” I joined him on the ground to see what had evoked such a response.**
Jean Houston

We do not have to live in wild places to
encounter wild life;
It is all around us, and perhaps
all the more awesome for it:
I want what Mr. Tayer had,
A life orientated towards
surprise and wonder …
And a falling into love
wherever I am:
look everywhere for difference …
See the earth as source …
celebrate the genius in others,
be not prepared against
but for surprise.^

*Dacher Keltner’s Awe;
**Jean Houston’s A Mythic Life;
^James Carse’s Finite and Infinite Games.

Different for difference sake

Is the life I’m living the same as the life that wants to live in me?*
Parker Palmer

Myth has always demanded action.**
Karen Armstrong.

“Next time it will be different,”
But this time wasn’t, and
next time, well, it
may be, but, really, we know what we’re doing
is putting off having to admit that
it won’t be;
The alternative is to do something
different for the sake of
things turning out differently.

We don’t know what our lives can be until
we allow wonder to break in,
Allowing ourselves to be changed
by awe, and led into new explorations, so,
Perhaps a walk in nature
(large or small), would be
somewhere
to begin –
And if you tell yourself,
“That’s not the kind of thing I do” –
Exactly!:
Encounters with images of nature
lead to the activation of dopamine networks in
the brain,
which animate … exploration and
wonder.^

*Sunil Raheja’s Dancing With Wisdom;
**Karen Armstrong’s A Short History of Myth;
^Dacher Keltner’s Awe.

^^The doodle: After pondering this theme, I heard Jennifer Lopez’s character Kat Valdez, in Marry Me, deliver this line.

Finding our way

The sages taught their disciples to look within themselves for truth and not to rely on the teachings of priests, and other religious experts.*
Karen Armstrong

Before we conclude that truth lies within
everyone,
It is important to note that we must first be a
disciple, a padawan –
One submitting and embracing a discipline, a way, a school, an order;
Formal or informal does not matter,
Only that we are seekers of truth in mind, heart, and
body:
Myth has always demanded action.*

*Karen Armstrong’s A Short History of Myth.