Mind and heart in wander

awe truly is all around us, if only we take the time to look*
Jonah Paquette

As well as opening doors, the children made dens: the doors allowing access and adventure, the dens permitting retreat and shelter.**
Robert Macfarlane

As we grow older,
May we not neglect the doors to
wander, to
wonder, to
adventure:
Where does your mind go
when it wanders?
My friend Jason
points out that this might be
where your heart is.^

*Jonah Paquette’s Awestruck;
**Robert Macfarlane’s Landmarks; of children playing in woods;
^Seth Godin’s blog: Where does your mind go when it wanders?

Genius is a crowd

With each close friend, relative, or lover, a character evolves a version of himself that he could not bring out all on his own.*
Robert McKee

No one sees reality. It’s worth repeating: No one actually sees the world as it is.**
Seth Godin

We only become who we are capable
of becoming
through others,
Especially those who are
different to us –
All the people we read or
listen to or
converse with around the things that
concern and matter to us,
And especially those
interactions around things
we hadn’t even thought about and that
matter to them.

Openness is key to creativity –
Something we know we’ll need plenty of if we are to
save our world,
Or be saved by the world –
And the good news is that for the most part
openness is free;
The bad news is that it is becoming more scarce
as we compartmentalise society and
digitalise our lives –
I love tech, but have to acknowledge
we are losing contact with
nature and humanity and
the whole news, as well as reading
longer texts and handwriting as
a reflective tool and enjoying
silence …

Creativity is the practice of keeping an open mind –
and the thing about maintaining a practice is,
well,
you need to keep practising.^

*Robert McKee’s Character;
**Seth Godin’s blog: The world as it is;
^gapingvoid’s blog: Chase down your dreams.

A completeness

Need: an empty inner space, a potential that craves realisation. At the inciting incident, the writer recognises an incompleteness in her protagonist … She therefore needs to complete her humanity.*
Robert McKee

won’t you celebrate with me
what i have shaped into
kind of life? i had no model …
i made it up
here on this bridge between
starshine and clay**

Lucille Clifton

As well as desire, there is also
need – the journey finding us
wanting;
Our urge is to shrink back,
Protecting what we have, but,
We can embrace our want, and
if we do, then
there can be what can only be called
transfiguration.

*Robert McKee’s Character;
**Maria Popova’s Figuring.

Open to more

The ego is you as you think of yourself. You in relation to all the commitments of your life, as you’ve understood them. The self is the whole range of possibilities that you’ve never even thought of. And you’re stuck with your past when your stuck with your ego.*
Joseph Campbell

We need to have more specialists in spirit who will lead people into self discovery. … We are being called into metamorphosis into a far higher order, and yet we often act only from a tiny portion of ourselves.**
Mr Tayer

The ego misses the possible,
Either because it believes it’s above
the possibility, or it isn’t
good enough;
The humble self that is
Mr Tayer, full of
awe and wonder, knows that
we have no idea what we
are truly capable of, and
opens to discovery.

Check out yesterday’s blog for
a place to begin exploring.

*Joseph Campbell’s The Hero’s Journey;
**Jean Houston’s A Mythic Life.

Unstoppable

All he wants to do is draw. He is, thank goodness, unstoppable.*
Jenny Uglow

Desire: a character’s persistent purpose, her unreached goal. Throughout a story’s telling, as the protagonist struggles to put her life back in balance, she pursues her object of desire as far as her emotional and mental powers can reach.**
Robert McKee

All I want to do is dreamwhisper and
doodle –
That about sums it up;
How about you?

I may be able to help you answer this question
with some dreamwhispering, maybe even
some doodling.

I shared recently that I have some places available for early 2024 –
I only work with a few people at a time, on
a one-to-one basis,
And I am now developing this as part of a simple gift economy –
Something I have been pondering for a while now^ –
And it doesn’t matter where you are in the world.

You will identify, or be affirmed in, all of the most important
elements for creating your unfolding story that is about
your truest self and the contribution you want to bring
to others.

Instead of working on the new year’s resolutions,
You could uncover an amazing story:
Just drop me a line to find out more:
geoffreybaines@gmail.com.

*Jenny Uglow’s The Quentin Blake Book, speaking of Blake;
**Robert McKee’s Character;
^
If this is for you then I can share more about how this works when you contact me.

It is your destiny

Life-as-Fate: If your character looks backward, rarely forward, she may feel trapped in a fate not her own. … Life-as-Destiny: If your character looks forward, rarely backward, she lives life on her own terms, freely choosing her own path.*
Robert McKee

Men wanted for hazardous journey, small wages, bitter cold, long months of complete darkness, constant danger, safe return doubtful, honour and recognition in case of success.**
Ernest Shackleton

Allegedly, Ernest Shackleton printed
this ad in a newspaper, and had more than
five thousand applicants;
Perhaps a desire on their part to
move out of the soul-numbing into
the life-tingling,
To move themselves out of fate and
into destiny:
To prove they were alive.

This desire to pursue destiny is strong
within each of us, and one place
to begin – not thousands of miles away –
Is within,
Entered through quietness and attention:
In that special silence,
you get a strong sense of something
that wants to happen that you would be
unaware of otherwise.^

When Darth Vader delivered the line on destiny
to his son, he had got it wrong,
He was talking about fate, but Luke chose
destiny.

*Robert McKee’s Character;
**Maria Popova’s Figuring;
^Joseph Jaworski, from Peter Senge, Otto Scharmer, Jospeh Jaworski, and Betty Sue Flowers’ Presence.

The thread

What is your thread?*
William Sieghart

Life is an expression of bliss.**
Joseph Campbell

Thread and bliss are two more words to
add to the list of
dream
purpose
meaning
must
element
calling
vocation –
The word doesn’t matter as much as
the question:
There’s a thread you follow. It goes among
things that change. But it doesn’t change.^

*William Sieghart’s The Poetry Pharmacy;
**Joseph Campbell’s Pathways to Bliss;
^From William Stafford’s The Way It Is; The Poetry Pharmacy.

My latest decomposition

The composting metaphor suggests that mystical awe follows a pattern of decay, distilling and growth.*
Dacher Keltner

Every move an infinite player makes is towards the horizon. Every move made by a finite player is within a boundary. Every moment of an infinite game therefore presents a new range of possibilities.**
James Carse

Perhaps there is an
idea, a
thought, a
theory, a
belief, a
paradigm that
needs to be removed
from it’s hermetic casing so that
it might rot and
drip its way towards
feeding a new possibility

*Dacher Keltner’s Awe;
**James Carse’s Finite and Infinite Games.

Awe something better

We are all equal in awe.*
Dacher Keltner

School and work push us to avoid real dreams. Dreamers are dangerous, impatient and unwilling to tolerate the status quo. Existing systems would prefer we simply fit in. The dreams we need to teach are the dreams of self-reliance and generosity. The only way for us to move forward is to encourage and amplify the work of people who are willing to learn, to see and to commit to making things better.**
Seth Godin

When we realise that awe
is something we all have to increase and develop – and
likely in our own quite specific ways –
We open up possibility and better.

*Dacher Keltner’s Awe;
**Seth Godin’s blog: Our dreaming opportunity.