Dreams that keep on whispering

Perhaps the purpose of the dream isn’t to be attained but to help us keep going. And keeping going is a priceless gift.*
Gabe Anderson

Shallow happy is what you want now.
Deep happy is what you want most.
Shallow happy serves the present.
Deep happy serves the future.**

Derek Sivers

A true dream^ is too big to be realised today, or
tomorrow, perhaps too big
for a lifetime;
It keeps life big,
Colourful,
Fascinating,
Generous, and
keeps us growing,
Becoming –
Just what, we don’t know
yet: there’s a true dream in
everyone.

*Gabe Anderson’s blog: The Dream Gap;
**Derek Sivers’ How To Live;
^Not only something to inspire and direct us, a true dream is something we give expression to each day and we are changed by.

Close up and ordinary

If we are looking for the mystical, we need go no further than the Victory, no further than the most ordinary of our ordinary experiences.*
James Carse

It is essential to put yourself in the unconditional service of the future possibility that is wanting to emerge. Viewed from this angle, presenting is about a dialogue with the future possibility that wants to emerge.**
Otto Scharmer

We underestimate what is under
our noses and overvalue what lures us
from a distance, but the future we want to
become the present is likely to be found in
the ordinary immediately around us –
This is where I work: in what is
already there but unnoticed.^

*James Carse’s Breakfast at the Victory; the Victory being a post WWII diner in Manhattan, a whirl of wonderment in the ordinary;
**Otto Scharmer’s Theory U;
^You’re welcome to drop me a line to find out more.

Extraordinary-ordinary

Mystical vision is seeing how extraordinary the ordinary is.*
James Carse

We become more original through practise.**
Seth Godin

What do you think mystical vision is
comprised of?

Here’s some space for
your list:







Here’re my own guesses:
Humility,
Slowness,
Attention,
Gentleness,
Gratitude,
Awe,
Selflessness.

All of these qualities can be developed, meaning
mystical vision can be practised, and
who knows what you will see –
I can’t wait to find out.

Your final act of generosity is your absence.
It leaves a void for others to step into.^

*James Carse’s Breakfast at the Victory;
**Seth Godin’s blog: Two kinds of practice;
^Derek Sivers’ How To Live.

When subtraction is addition

Plerosis (filling) rather than kenosis (emptying) has been my spiritual practice.*
Jean Houston

Before the first chord is written, the song can be anything you want. The possibilities are endless. Finishing the song is the process of eliminating possibilities, and having the guts to do it.**
Gabe Anderson

It is not possible to have it all, oftentimes we must
let go of something for something else to come, but
even these stories of emptying may be gathered up to
become our most precious tales of all.

*Jean Houston’s A Mythic Life;
**Gabe Anderson’s blog: Before the First Chord.

The eye of the story

The Victory had become what Ernie did without doing it. There was a centre to all this activity; it was a still centre. It’s no wonder that we overlooked it. We overlooked it because there was nothing to see. It was the nothing that made it mystical.*
James Carse

Monotony is the enemy.
Novelty is the solution.**

Derek Sivers

When flow^ turns into something repititious,
When one’s ego-self becomes visible,
It may be time to try something
disrupting, awkward, uncomfortable,
Until a new centredness and effortlessness is entered.^^

*James Carse’s Breakfast At the Victory – The Victory was a Manhattan diner that revolved around the disabled WWII veteran and proprietor Ernie;
**Derek Sivers’ How To Live;
^Wu-wei is very similar to flow;
^^A 4% stretch should do it – this is the amount of unfamiliarity apparently necessary to evoke flow. This also sounds very much like the hero’s journey from the old status quo to the new, which in turn will become the old, and a new call to adventure is heard.

We care

Caring puts us on the hook and caring offers a chance to contribute. When we care, we get to make a difference, and that creates meaning, the path to significance.*
Seth Godin

We need myths that help us to realise the importance of compassion, which is not always regarded as being sufficiently productive or efficient in our pragmatic, rational world.**
Karen Armstrong

Caring about something is risky, we may be
disappointed or upset, we may
fail and look foolish, we may need to
commit more resources, time, energy, but
these same things mean that we’ve
found something that really matters, and
when it matters to others, too, then
we’ve found the mother-load of all
meaningfulness.

*Seth Godin’s blog: Who cares?;
**Karen Armstrong’s A Short History of Myth.

This may be rubbish

I’m glad my old confidence is gone because it thought I was right, and maybe even great, but not anymore. Now I am to make my work – my little contribution to the world – just unique and useful.*
Derek Sivers

I’ve never thought myself great, but
perhaps I too often thought I was right –
Yet, when I manage to clear that out of the way,
I get to see a contribution I can bring, a
little difference I can make –
But please tell me if it’s a load of rubbish.

*Derek Sivers’ Hell Yeah or No.

The incomparable path

Gratitude serves as a bridge to the transcendent, connecting us to something beyond ourselves. At the heart of the human impulse to seek meaning lies gratitude. And at the heart of gratitude lies the sense of meaning … do you want to change how you see yourself and the world? Cultivate the practice of expressing gratitude.*
Alex McManus

It doesn’t matter that there are many who
are more talented than us, who possess
more than we do –
If we are grateful for
who we are and what we have, and
find ways to give expression to these, then
an incomparable path** will appear
step by step before us.

*AleXander McManus’ FutureU.

A family likeness

The first great wonder at the world is big in me.*
Margaret Wise Brown

Much of nature we consider beautiful because we are part of nature. We grew up in nature, evolutionary speaking.**
Alan Lightman

I don’t know about you, but
I need wonder to be bigger in me than it is;
Earth just keeps on giving, and a worthy
quest for the rest of my days is to
notice more – I am nature, as you are, and
I must unlearn to
be able to relearn.

*Bruce Handy’s Wild Things;
Alan Lightman’s The Transcendent Brain.