Walking in rhythm, moving in flow

The antidote to exhaustion is wholeheartedness.*
Brother David

When we are in rhythm with our own natures, things flow and balance naturally.**
John O’Donohue

What’s your wholeheartedness? –
What it is you want to bring through the
powers you have honed,
That something with an
an endlessness and limitlessness to it;
It’s quite different to willpower, which at first appears to be
just what we require to do what we have to do, but is in
limited supply, running out sooner than
we need it to –
Those around us know when
we’re running on wholeheartedness or willpower.

*David Whyte’s Crossing the Unknown Sea;
**John O’Donohue’s Eternal Echoes.

Inside ages

Children know something most people have forgotten. Children possess a fascination with everyday existence that is very special and would be very helpful to adults if they could learn to understand and respect it. I am now 28 years old on the outside and nearly 12 years old on the inside. I always want to stay 12 years old on the inside.*
Keith Haring

The philosopher Hannah Arendt argued that humans have three ways to spend their time. The labour required to feed ourselves and survive. The work of doing a craft that we are proud of. And the action of organisation and possibility.**
Seth Godin

It was Anne Lamott who suggested that
we carry all of our ages inside of us;
I will soon be 66 years old on the outside and
I am very aware that I must choose carefully
the age I want to be on the inside –
I don’t only want to spend my time in
one way.

*Keith Haring’s Keith Haring Journals;
**Seth Godin’s The Song of Significance.

Dreaming wide-awake

Your awakening is a gift to this world that needs you now more than ever.*
Jean Houston

The important thing isn’t to achieve your dreams, but to keep dreaming.**
James Clear

How does the saying go:
Give a person a dream and
they have something to do for the next
week or two, teach a person to dream and
they have a life of unfolding meaning and purpose.^

*Jean Houston’s The Wizard of Us;
**James Clear’s 3-2-1 newsletter: On daily discomfort, the power of acting early, and life’s greatest pleasure;
^If I can help with some dreamwhispering, let me know.

It’s regretful, thankfully

We regret foregone opportunities more often than unfulfilled obligations. Yet we also know that a wholly realised life involves a mix of both dreams and duties.*
Daniel Pink

When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare, and here I am starving to death!  I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you.**
The prodigal son

Regret was a gift to one son but
not the other:
One chases home,
Regretting the choices he’d made, the other,
Still at home, hadn’t made the most of
what he had all along, and
because there’s no regret,
It remains lost to him.

*Daniel Pink’s The Power of Regrets;
**Luke 15:17-18

How strange, how peculiar

When you trust yourself enough to integrate your strangeness, you bestow a gift on yourself.*
John O’Donohoe

The genius of an individual lies in the inhabitation of their peculiar and particular spirit in conversation with the world. Genuine is something that is itself and no other thing.**
David Whyte

We come to ourselves and to
our contribution through
interaction with the world.

We hope to be seen in
the best possible light,
Admired, thought highly of.

If we push on through this,
We are likely to find our truer self and
boon is viewed as somewhat strange, peculiar, yet:

Love the humble art you have learned and take rest in it.^

*John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty;
**David Whyte’s Crossing the Unknown Sea;
^Marcus Aurelius, from Ryan Holiday’s The Daily Stoic.

Somebodiness

Number one in your life’s blueprint, should be a deep belief in your own dignity, your own worth and your own somebodiness. Don’t allow anybody to make you feel like you are nobody. Always feel that you count. Always feel that you have worth, and always feel that your life has ultimate significance …*
Martin Luther King Jr.

Character, the willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life – is the source from which all self-respect springs.**
Joan Didion

Your singular responsibility and mission is to be you
in all of your unrepeatable, imperfect glory and beauty –
I unable to give this to you, and I certainly
cannot take it from you;
It is always yours, awaiting
expression today and
every day.

*Seth Godin’s This Is Strategy;
**Ryan Holiday’s The Daily Stoic.

Unlikely

Find the nerds, the motivated, and the overlooked, and figure out what they need to thrive. That exploration will reveal what others have needed as well but didn’t care enough to speak up about.*
Seth Godin

The quest for certainty blocks the search for meaning. Uncertainty is the very condition to impel man to unfold his powers.**
Erich Fromm

We want tried and proven certainty, but
maybe our hope will come from somewhere else –
Seth Godin’s words sound familiar, resonating with
another group of unlikelies, including the poor and mournful and meek and merciful;^
I am an unlikely making space for others to
be recognised and thrive –
Perhaps you are, too.

*Seth Godin’s The Song of Significance;
**Oliver Burkeman’s The Antidote;
^Matthew 5:1-11.

Thank you

We came here to do something together.

My only “job” – purposeful living – is to find this current and wind and be able to steer within them.*
Victor Strecher

Thank you to those who have recently found and
signed up for Thin|Silence;
I am grateful to all who have connected over the
past twelve years.

The original idea was to turn something from
my daily journaling into something of benefit to others,**
Something to play with each day, without an explanation,
And only posted if I could come up with a doodle.

Thank you, again – I can’t do any of my work
without others, including Thin|Silence,
And if I can help in anything related to my posts,
I’m only an email away.^

*Victor Stretcher’s Life On Purpose;
**I begin with some quotes that I have found interesting, and that may or may not go together, and I try to keep the post as short as possible;
^geoffrey@thinsilence.org.

The right why

Coaches and teachers are usually able to provide the knowledge and skills to perform, but the great coaches and teachers help to find the right why in their protégés. In doing so, they teach wisdom.**
Victor Strecher

Mortals must do what they are here to create or they will become cranky.**
Seth Godin

There are many ways, but
not all ways have a why, a way
without a why is only
a roundabout,
A why means nowhere is really
Lost, everywhere can be
here, now, play.

*Victor Stretcher’s Life On Purpose;
**Seth Godin’s Tales of the Revolution.