And let me be clear …

Now is the time to free the heart,
Let all intentions and worries stop,
Free the joy inside the self,
Awaken to the wonder of your life.*

John O’Donohue

Pursue clarity instead. 
In the pursuit of clarity, style reveals itself. 
Your clarity will differ from anyone else’s without
your intention to make it differ.*

Verlyn Klinkenborg

To be unclear is to sleep,
Unable to take or make the opportunities that allow us
to bring our boutique contribution into the world
for others.
It’s why taking some time to discover what
lies within
ushers in the day, and with it
direction and alacrity.^

*John O’Donohue’s Benedictus: For an Occasion of Celebration;
**Verlyn Klikenborg’s Several short sentences about writing;
^Drop me a line to find out more about dreamwhispering.

And the genre is you

But genres are merely outlines by another name
Better to be discovering what’s worth discovering.
Noticing what you notice … .*

Verlyn Klinkenborg

All behaviour is about learning to hear the voice of your own soul. It is always there and there deeply you lear to listen, the greater the surprises and discoveries that will unfold. To enter into the gentleness of your own should chances the tone and quality of your life.**
John O’Donohue

You may have been categorised, listed and
measured from your earliest days,
Yet beneath the surface of you lies
a uniqueness of seeing and questioning, of
imagining and making;
An off-script, irreplaceable bespokeness to give expression to.

*Verlyn Klinkenborg’s Several short sentences about writing;
**John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty
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Not another “get rich quick” scheme

You’ll never run out of noticing … .*
Verlyn Klinkenborg

In Blake‘s sense, a firm persuasion, was a form of self-knowledge; it was understood as a result, an outcome, bouncy that comes from pay close attention to an astonishing world and the way each of us is made differently and uniquely for that world.**
David Whyte

We may not have many pounds, dollars, euros or yen,
But we all get to be rich in noticing, affluent
in attention, wealthy
in observation, and
when mixed with our
peculiar abilities and energy, and our
distinctive values, we’re capable of
making something extraordinary.
William Blake’s firm persuasion feels
a lot like Theory U‘s crystallising intent,
The thing we must do, and the result of
opening the mind, heart, and will,
Slowly but surely noticing more.

*Verlyn Klinkenborg’s Several short sentences about writing;
**David Whyte’s Crossing the Unknown Sea.

By implication

Without extraneous words or phrases or clauses, there will be room for implication.
The longer the sentence, the less its able to imply,
And writing by implication should be one of your goals.*

Verlyn Klinkenborg

Whatever story you choose for your past enormously impacts your present and future.**
Ben Hardy

Life on the far side of complexity comes
with implication.
You have faced and explored and identified
the contents of your life,
Both good and bad, past and future, and there has emerged
a richer story to give
full expression to.

*Verlyn Klinkenborg’s Several short sentences about writing;
**Ben Hardy’s Be Your Future Self Now
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The future is now (it always has been)

Research now shows that a person’s past does not drive or dictate their actions and behaviours. Rather we are pulled forward by our future.*
Ben Hardy

Ben Hardy writes that when it comes to the future,
We’re probably either trying to approach it or
avoid it, so I shall determine
to travel to the future in order
to live more fully in the present.
If I never go to the future,
My wallpaper is the past;
If I try to stay there, I am
disconnecting from reality.
But my future self helps me to see what I
must now do if
life is to be more engaging, richer and beautiful.

*Ben Hardy’s Be Your Future Self Now.

1 May 2018

The elephant and the rider

The purposes in the human mind are like deep water, but the intelligent will draw them out. Many proclaim themselves loyal, but who can find one worthy of trust?*

This is what creativity serves. It endeavours to bring some of our hidden life to expression in order that we might come to see who we are.**
John O’Donohue

The elephant is the human mind: vast, comprising
ideas, impressions, data, beliefs, emotions, thoughts, memories, preferences …
Churning these over in sometimes
unstoppable ways, but
the rider is also the human mind,
The one noticing, questioning, evaluating, deciding, learning, interospective …
Towards the more hopeful and compassionate and beautiful response.
The rider’s task seems impossible, and yet history has shown that
it’s far from impossible when we show that we are capable of
bringing beauty to expression
in so many ways.

*Proverbs 20:5-6;
**John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty.

The need for a deeper soul

The craft of questions, the craft of stories, the craft of the hands – all these are the making of something, and that something is soul. Any time we feed soul, it guarantees increase.*
Clarissa Pinkola Estés

Of the many callings in the world, the invitation to an adventure of an awakened and full life is the most exhilarating. This is the dream of every heart. Yet most of us are lost or caught in the forms of life that exile us from the life we dream of. Most people long to step into the path of creative change that would awaken their lives to beauty an passion, deepen their contentment and allow their lives to make a difference.**
John O’Donohue

Soul-fullness looks different in each person,
But it is always about
becoming fully awake.
When we are not fully awake, we need
everything around us to be louder, busier, brighter, as well as
problem-solved, unsurprising, uncomplicated.
Of course the world and universe are what they are, chaotic and
unpredictable;
Spending time and focus on your inside worlds is not only
an ancient human pursuit, but is
arguably more important than ever for dealing with life’s
decrease, but it is also the way to our
peculiar or boutique
increase.

Some people wake us up.^

*Clarissa Pinkola Estés’ Women Who Run With the Wolves;
**John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty;
^gapingvoid’s blog: Make Your Impossible Dream a Reality.

Full(y)filling

You can alter the story your are feeding your brain.*
Martin Amor and Alex Pellew

As an adult, I’ve come to realise that life isn’t about finding yourself. It’s about creating yourself. Books are clay for exactly that.**
Tim Ferriss

You’ve made a lots of choices to get where you are,
Preferring this over that so many times that
it’s impossible to count,
And you are the result.
Sometimes you knew exactly what you were doing,
But every choice is tendrilous in nature to
a greater or lesser degree,
Meaning that there’s far more to you than you know.
It’s worth having a look every so often –
Which is what my work with people is all about –
Because there’s a lot more to find as well as
more to create to
fully fill all your life.

*Martin Amor and Alex Pellew’s The Idea in You;
Cladia Bedrick and Maria Popova’s A Velocity of Being.

Word journeys

It’s time to go home. It’s time to go back to where you belong. It’s time to discover what you really are.*
Llewellyn Vaughan-Lee

People of faith and hope are often unrealistic, and the realists have little faith or hope. We shall find a way out of the present situation only if realism and faith become blended again as they were in some of the great teachers of mankind.**
Erich Fromm

Journeys come in all sorts of shape and size.
I have been reading through several books and posts this morning –
A first journey of the day through ideas and stories,
And I have been gathering words along the way:
Humility,
Reality,
Faith,
Learner,
Guide,
Journey,
Blessing.
I think I am noticing these because I sense a journey ahead<
A journey that can be surprising and meaningful,
Or mundane and predictable.
It’s how I put these words together that will
the story:
Every idea and every
pursuit of an idea inside us
is life. …
The lack of ideas is death.^

*Susan Cain’s Bittersweet;
**Erich Fromm’s The Revolution of Hope:
^Peter Turchi’s A Muse and A Maze; from Thomas Bernhard’s Correction
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Living the story

The source of all art is the human psyche’s primal need for the resolution of stress and discord through beauty and harmony. … Life on its own, without art to shape it, leaves you in confusion and chaos, but well-told stories have the power to harmonise what you know with what you feel.*
Robert McKee

When passion of feeling and technical brilliance come together the beauty can be devastating and transfiguring.**
John O’Donohue

The story is how we make all of that
passion and competence
breathe and live and dance each day;
Whilst comprised of thoughts and feelings,
It only finds full expression in our actions,
The making of the beautiful we are
each capable of for one another.
More than this,
The story keeps us moving through all the struggles:
The myth and its accompanying rituals
were a reminder that often things had to get worse
before they could get better,
and that survive and creativity
required a dedicated struggle.^

*Robert McKee‘s newsletter: What Makes a Story a Work of Art?;
**John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty;
^Karen Armstrong’s A Short History of Myth.