The way to maintain one’s connection to the wild is to ask yourself what is it you want. This is the sorting of the seed from the dirt. One of the most important discriminations we can make in this matter is between things that beckon us and things that call from our souls.*
Clarissa Pinkola Estés

Human nature is not a machine to be built after a model, and set to do exactly the work prescribed for it, but a tree, which requires to grow and develop itself on all sides, according to the tendency of the inward forces which make it a living thing.**
John Stuart Mill

There will be those who –
Even with the best of intents – will tell you,
You should do this, but
you are a living thing, impossible to
categorise,
A wild thing, with a growth all of your own
to discover –
A must waiting to be manifested.

*Clarissa Pinkola Estés Women Who Run With the Wolves;
**Mary Midgley’s The Myths We Live By.

Play to keep playing.*
Seth Godin

Whoever must play cannot play.**
James Carse

Play comes from within –
When we are told to play
it becomes seriousness,
And seriousness does not allow the
freedom that play easily produces,
The freedom required to help us
navigate the complexity that
seriousness-alone struggles with:
We cannot analyse our way through
this level of complexity,
but we can play with it.^

*Seth Godin’s The Practice;
**James Carse’s Finite and Infinite Games;
^Graham Leicester’s Transformative Innovation.

For the one who believes it, a blessing can signal the start of a journey of transformation.*
John O’Donohue

An artist knows the aesthetic choices only come alive on paper. As a writer, it’s your job to write draft after draft, to improvise, to play one beat against the next, toss ideas around in your imagination and then write them down.**
Robert McKee

A blessing is
encouragement, permission,^ and
grand hope that may be
all a person needs to set upon a journey
of actioning their dreams,
finding themselves transformed in the process –
So it is for me, I think.

We do not have to be a writer
or artist to appreciate that drafts are how
we move forward –
If we wait for the perfect there will be
no forward momentum –
so we explore, experiment,
Fail, and try again and
again.

You don’t need my blessing –
But you have it:
Bless yourself.

*John O’Donohue’s Benedictus;
**Robert McKee‘s newsletter: Why Creativity Takes Work;
^Or the promise not to put up barriers

That we might awaken,
To live to the full
The dream of the earth
Who chose us to emerge
And incarnate its hidden night
In mind, spirit and light.*
John O’Donohue

It is about waking up to a knowledge that is deep in the very fabric of our being, and it is about living in relation to this wisdom.**
Philip Newell

Some sleep, or sleep-walk, through life,
Others awaken to the possibilities of
their singular life, presenting themselves with
options, choices, decisions – a freedom to go
where they want;
They travel to the deep-rootedness
of their being:
To find the roots of our responsibilities
we must go to the roots of our abilities,
a journey into a core sense of ourselves
where we can put together an understanding
of how we are made,
why we have the responsibilities we have, and,
just as important,
the images that formed us in our growing.^

When a person comes to this
later in their lives
there is often a great deal more to discover
than they know –
They have done much of the hard work,
perhaps unknowingly, and now have
the possibility of curating:
that is, to select, arrange, and enhance
their story, which is also
their soul:
Today it appears more important
to remind man that he has a spirit,
that he is a spiritual being.^^

Waking up will not disappoint us.

*John O’Donohue’s Benedictus: In Praise Of Earth;
**Philip Newell’s Sacred Earth, Sacred Soul;
^David Whyte’s Crossing the Unknown Sea;
^^Viktor Frankl’s The Doctor and the Soul; written in 1952, hence the use of male gender.

Each new day is a path of wonder, a different invitation.*
John O’Donohue

We feel most comfortable when things are certain; but we feel most alive when they’re not.**
Tania Luna

Clarissa Pinkola Estés raises the two
critical questions:
What am I really?
What is my work here?^ –
Though I would open them
to the influence of the future,
As well as the past and the present:
What am I really becoming?
What is my work becoming?

When our future rearranges us then
our past becomes the fuel for
our art and artisanship.

*John O’Donohue’s Benedictus;
**Chip and Dan Heath’s The Power of Moments;
^Clarissa Pinkola Estés’ Women Who Run With the Wolves.

What counts is not so much whether a person actually achieves what they set out to do; rather it matters whether effort has been expended to reach the goal, instead of being diffused or wasted.*
Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

You can’t save today’s energy for
the next day – tomorrow
comes with its own vivacity;
And if we need a guarantee of
success before we begin then we’ll
never embark on much of anything.

Here are some playful ways in which to
engage our energy:
Curiosity, turning into
observation, but then
moving on to notice more, before turning to
thoughtfulness, resulting in making something
skilfully* –
Which may or may not be just
what you had in mind,
And you may also find that you’ve increased
your energy for tomorrow.

*Mihaly Ciskszentmihalyi’s Flow;
**Rohit Bhargava’s five steps for innovation and creativity are: Curiosity, Observation, Fickleness (not over-focusing on one thing), Thoughtfulness, and Elegance: Non Obvious 2019).

What happens because of what happens next?*
Alex McManus

Good process leads to good outcomes.**
Seth Godin

Are you sure that’s what you want to do next?
Have you thought about next next?
And what about next next next?

*Alex McManus’ Makers of Fire;
**Seth Godin’s The Practice.‘

When one is at home in oneself, one is integrated and enjoys a sense of balance and poise. In a sense that is exactly what spirituality is: the art of homecoming.*
John O’Donohue

Living in accordance with our values is never finished; it is a lifelong journey.**
Steven Hayes

I love the energy and thrill of balance and poise,
Of knowing just where I am in
myself and in the work I do,
But I also love learning new things, and
trying to bring these into
me and bring them before others –
And then I am clumsy and unbalanced again;
But this is all a part of the homeward journey
towards new balance and poise,
Before I journey outwards once more.

*John O’Donohue’s Benedictus;
**Steven Hayes’ A Liberated Mind.

The thing that gets us stuck isn’t us. It’s the script that we’ve decided is our only option. Call it out. Realise that it’s not the only option … Rewrite the script, rewrite the outcome.*
Seth Godin

We have already heard that the fulfilment of meaning is possible in three main directions: humans are able to give meaning by doing something, by acting, by creating – by bringing a work into being; secondly, by experiencing something – nature, art – or loving people; and thirdly, human being are able to find meaning even where finding value in life is not possible for them in either the first or the second way – namely, precisely when they take a stance toward the unalterable, fated, inevitable and unavoidable: how they adapt to this limitation, react towards it, how they accept their fate.**
Viktor Frankl

Every life comes with a script –
Where we are born and to whom, for starters –
But it is incomplete, and if there’s
one thing that we’re adept at, it’s bringing some
imagination and creativity to bear, rendering
the original narrative unrecognisable;
Where we take our stories is up to us.

*Seth Godin’s blog: “Here we go again”;
**Viktor Frankl’s Yes To Life.

In terms of character traits, other studies have found that awe is correlated to traits like gratefulness, a love of learning, creativity, and appreciation for beauty.*
Jonah Paquette

And now to the question of the meaning of our imbalances: let us not forget that each person is imperfect, but each is imperfect in a different way, each “in his own way.” And as imperfect as he is, he is uniquely imperfect. So, expressed in a positive way, he becomes somehow irreplaceable, unable to be represented by anyone else, unexchangeable.**
Viktor Frankl

*Jonah Paquette’s Awestruck;
**Viktor Frankl’s Yes To Life.