Scale is rarely the first signal of important work.*
Seth Godin

Serious games are all around us, whether we choose to play them or not.*
Seth Godin

If this important work
comes from deep within you, then
you must keep going –
This is your faith;
Do not be pulled off course,
Do not compare your work with others,
Learn from them but
do no repeat them,
Your instinct, your intuition,
This, too, is your faith;
Numbers are not important at first, and
they may never be important –
One is the smallest audience we require,
Remaining a special number for me, and
you may be the one.^

*Seth Godin’s blog: The NSE confusions;
**Seth Godin’s This is Strategy;
^You’re welcome to get in touch to find out more about my dreamwwhispering work: geoffrey@thinsilence.org.

I guess that’s all I’ve got left, then. Loving what’s left with the time I have left.*
Hannah

We are always wrong in some essential way about what our story is. We are never living out exactly the story we think we are. We are never exactly the character in the story we mean to be. But to be wrong in these ways is what makes it a story, openended and unpredictable, instead of a fixed plot rolling out to its foreknown conclusion.**
James Carse

Look for the wild in you,
It’s still there, no matter how much
parenting, education, work-life, enculturisation, and life experiences
have sought to make you predictable;
No matter what has preceded
this moment, your wild makes it possible to
be fully your limited, unpredictable, imperfect, unfolding, and
glorious self.

What’s your next thought,
Write it down –
No matter how crazy:
You need one small way to live this thought,
To cross the threshold,
The rest will follow,
Though it’s probably not what’s expected.^

Once you have crossed the threshold, if it really is your adventure – if it is a journey that is appropriate to your deep spiritual need or readiness – helpers will come along the way to provide magical aid.^^

*Brian McLaren’s Faith After Doubt;
**James Carse’s Breakfast At the Victory;
^You can always share it with me;
^^Joseph Campbell’s Pathways to Bliss.

Resistance’s goal is not to wound or disable. Resistance aims to kill. Its target is the epicentre of our being: our genius, our soul, the unique and priceless gift we were put on this earth to give that no one else has but us. Resistance means business.*
Steven Pressfield

Often, when something goes wrong, it is the small acts of self-care that we abandon first – even when they are the very things that have the power to heal us.**
William Seighart

The higher the stakes the greater
the resistance – coming at us from beyond and
within, so we’ll definitely
mess up, get hurt, doubt ourselves, and even
give up, and some have almost
been destroyed by it so that
they hurt everything around them.

A lack of self-care is doing
resistance’s work for it –
If you see a friend in a similar place, you
wouldn’t walk away but you’d help them to get back up;
You don’t write them off, so
why don’t you give yourself a hand, some
self-compassion, another chance.

This can look a lot like journaling, which
helps us separate the instructive from the destructive,
Re-arming us for another attempt at
bringing into the world the
unique and priceless that only we can;
We have already lost the gifts of so many,
We don’t want to lose yours.

Faithfulness is our response to resistance,
Faithfulness being playful with who we are and what we have,
Faithfulness that begets perseverance;
If there’s one thing that resistance
struggles with, it’s perseverance:
Here you come again,
And I’m cheering you on.

*Steven Pressfield’s Do the Work;
**William Seighart’s The Poetry Pharmacy.

So I finally figured out what’s great about this. Getting knocked on my ass has made me humble as hell. It’s been years since I called for help. It’s been years since I was open to advice.*
Derek Sivers

Hierarchy is not just what we do, it is who we are.**
Matthew Syed

Humility is a choice in a
world of hierarchies,^ to
see ourselves and to see
others more accurately, not only
as we are, but as we may
become, meaning humility is not
about decrease but increase.

*Derek Sivers’ Hell Yeah or No;
**Matthew Syed’s Rebel Ideas;
^Matthew Syed describes two sorts of hierarchies: dominance and privilege – humility is alive and well in the latter.

I believe in finding what I didn’t know I was looking for.*
Austin Kleon

To follow your gift is a calling to a wonderful adventure of discovery. Some of the deepest longings in you is the voice of your gift. The gifts calls you to embrace it.**
John O’Donohue

I hope that you never
know everything about yourself, and that
the joy of this pursuit will
never be lost to you;
Discovering more about yourself will lead
to more discoveries out there, whilst the more
you uncover out there, the more you’ll
uncover in yourself –
That should keep you
busy for a while.

*Austin Kleon’s blog: Spontaneity is learning and browsing is research;
**John O’Donohue’s Eternal Echoes.

The challenge is to find a way of life in harmony with your gifts and needs.*
John O’Donohue

Are you Successful when you do this?
Is it Intuitive to you?
Do you Grow as a result?
Does it meet a Need in you –
Then you’ve found the SIGN
you are looking for.

*John O’Donohue’s Benedictus.

a sense of humour is the only divine quality of man*
Arthur Schopenhauer

Learn what is to be taken seriously and laugh at the rest.**
Hermann Hesse

I need to laugh
at myself far more
often, and begin to
recover from my
seriousness malady.

*Jean Houston’s The Wizard of Us;
**James Clear’s 3-2-1 newsletter: How to help someone, the value of bad luck, and rewarding competence.

Most powerful is he who has himself in his own power.*
Seneca

The ability …
… to work hard
… to say no
… to practice good habits and set boundaries
… to train and prepare
… to avoid temptations and provocations
… to keep your emotions in check
… to endure painful difficulties.*
Ryan Holiday

What the point of all that discipline?

Freedom to become and,
Out of our becoming,
To give.

To do what you want, when you want,
How you want, for whom you want:
I and Thou,**
I-in-Now.^

*Ryan Holiday’s Discipline is Destiny;
**Martin Buber’s I and Thou;
^Otto Scharmer’s Theory U.

Whatever you value most in your life can always be traced back to some jumble of chance occurrences you couldn’t possibly have planned for, and that you certainly can’t alter retrospectively now.*
Oliver Burkeman

There’s always something just beneath the surface, the element that most people simply don’t notice. But we can if we choose.**
Seth Godin

Someone happened to loan me this book,
I bumped into and had a conversation with this person,
It turned out that someone saw my blog and passed it to a friend …
Again and again, happenstance has shaped my life in
larger and smaller ways –
At no point did I sit down and map all of this out,
But one thing I did determine to do,
As often as I was aware of what was happening, was to
look beneath the surface, to go
deeper, to open and explore the
randomness, towards making something from it,
Which will hopefully lead me into more happenstance.

(I begin my day journalling, for which one of my sources is
last year’s journal entry, and
it just so happened that I read tomorrow’s entry
rather than today’s by mistake – happenstance in action –
So perhaps these thoughts might help you in
some random way today.)

*Oliver Burkeman’s Four Thousand Weeks;
**Seth Godin’s blog: The things you can’t see.

What you can plan
is too small
for you to live …

To be human
is to become visible
while carrying
what is hidden
as a gift to others.*
David Whyte

Today, if there’s something I don’t know, it’s almost certainly because I haven’t cared enough to find out … Now that information is widely and freely available, our sense of agency around knowledge needs to change. It pays to acknowledge that this is a choice, and to be responsible for it. What else have we chosen not to know?**
Seth Godin

Beyond the plan
for today
there is a story,
One that eats
information for breakfast and
turns it into wisdom,
Transforming you into a giver –
Maker of difference for
someone, somewhere.

*David Whyte’s Crossing the Unknown Sea: What To Remember When Waking;
**Seth Godin’s blog: Willfully uninformed.