It is a constant effort and hard work – and inexplicably life-affirming – to honour who you are, what you believe, and why you are here.*
(Elle Luna)

When our possibility for growth is linked with quests for nobility, honour and enlightenment, we’re engaging in deep work** and fruitfulness will follow in the form of courage, generosity and wisdom.^

I am reminded of my father’s hard work of double-spading^^ our back garden when we moved on his retirement, removing so many stones that he was able to build a wall the whole length of the garden, including a walled enclosure full of stones at the end of the wall.*^

The result was a highly productive garden full of vegetables and flowers, far more than our family could consume and enjoy.

Cal Newport writes about the places people as diverse as Carl Jung, Michel de Montaigne, Woody Allen, Bill Gates, J. K. Rowling and Mark Twain would take themselves in order to engage in deep work.

There is no less a need to take ourselves to an undistracted place when it comes to the deep work of becoming more who we are.

Where do you go to dig deep, remove the stones and clear the weeds from your life?

(*From Elle Luna’s The Crossroads of Should and Must.)
(**Deep Work is the title of Cal Newport’s book of rules for success in a distracted world.
(^See Erwin McManus’ Uprising.)
(^^Digging two spade-depths deep.)
(*^He probably should have sold it as hardcore – possibly missed a trick there.)

One Caesar – Domitian – had a choir that followed him everywhere he went, singing,

You are worthy, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honour and power.*
(Rob Bell)

People are still trying to make a name for themselves, but the most important name is the one given to us by those who know us best.**

The best names of all come to us through lives of humility and service.

(*From Rob Bell’s What is the Bible?)
(**I belong to an organisation that provides names for one another based on they discover and know one another. You cannot suggest your own name, only accept, or not, the name offered.)

Figure out what it means to put flesh and blood on it.

In your place,
at your time,
in your world,
figure it out.*
(Rob Bell)

The thing you really want will require everything.

There are many borders to cross, challenges to face, people to encounter, before you will come to the fullness of what it is you desire, found in the I-in-now:

The revolutionary force in this century is the awakening of a deep generative human capacity – the I-in now.**

This is the fourth of Otto Scharmer and Theory U‘s “I-in” stages.

We begin with I-in-me – a necessary and important world, though small.

Larger is the world of I-in-it in which we discover there is more than we possibly knew.

Beyond this growing world is I-in-us, the discovering of deeper and richer worlds of one another.

Now we are able to arrive at I-in-now, a world of many possibilities made possible because we each are bringing all and everything we are – especially our courage, our generosity, our wisdom.

I feel Martin Buber commentating on this more when he writes:

Those who experience do not participate in the world. For the experience is “in them” and not between them and the world.^

The experience is most-important to us but is not the end of our questing, merely the beginning.

We are glimpsing a different and very possible human future made possible when we are prepared to give everything:

Once you’ve seen, you can’t unsee.*

(*From Rob Bell’s What is the Bible?)
(**From Otto Scharmer’s Theory U.)
(^From Martin Buber’s I and Thou.)

Often, we choose to be selfish because we feel insufficiency. […] The single best way to find sufficiency and confidence and trust and forward motion is to do precisely the opposite of what our instincts might tell us. In an economy based on connection, trust and attention, the posture of generosity is not only the highest-yielding strategy, it’s also the right thing to do.*
(Seth Godin)

Disruptive innovators thrive on making a difference first and focus on growth later.**
(Bernadette Jiwa)

Waste is a product of our finite games. James Carse explores what waste really is in his book concerned with the bigger games we can play:

Society regards its waste as an unfortunate, but necessary, consequence of its activities – what is left when we have made essential societal goods available. But waste is not the result of what we have made. It is what we have made.^

What we are blind to, when it comes to waste, Carse brings out into the open:

It is this repeated parallel that brings us to see that the society that creates natural waste creates human waste. Waste persons are those no longer useful as resources to a society for whatever reason and have become apotrides, or noncitizens.^

To such people, Carse argues, we donate our waste, our leftovers:

Waste is the antiproperty that becomes the possession of losers. It is the emblem of the untitled.^

This is the extreme but there are many people who are considered unimportant or invisible by our societies.

But no one is a waste of space. We’re talking about creatures that may be, as far as we presently know, the most complex entities in the universe.

Yet we sort and stack our children as soon as we possibly can and once in this industrial system of education, it’s difficult to break out.^^

We need to open up different ways, means and possibilities:

Reading opens up worlds inside your head, worlds you can explore, play with, roam around in. Worlds that are in your and that become part of you. When you read, you become bigger.*^

(*From Seth Godin’s blog: The paradox of selfishness.)
(**From Bernadette Jiwa’s Meaningful.)
(^From James Carse’s Finite and Infinite Games.)
(^^Also check out Seth Godin’s thesis: Stop Stealing Dreams.)
(*^Martha Nussbaum’s letter to you readers from A Velocity of Being.)

Mine was a journey of learning to trust not knowing and to stay open to what appears – and to help others find their own next steps.*
(Bob Stilger)

You leave the world that you’re in and go into a depth, or into a distance or up to a height. There you come to what is missing in your consciousness in the world you formerly inhabited. […] The adventure is symbolically a manifestation of [your] character.**
(Joseph Campbell)

We don’t have to travel to far away places for one of Joseph Campbell’s vision-quest adventures that change us.

Whatever your day is about why not adventure that?

Go deeper, go further, go higher, be open to what is wanting to emerge.

Every day, we can leave behind our old ways of thinking, of feeling, of behaving.

(Bob Stilger, from Drawn Together Through Visual Practice.)
(From Joseph Campbell and Bill Moyers’ The Power of Myth.)

The thing about comparing ourselves with others is that they’re probably using a completely different yardstick to the one we require if we are to see the significant and critical things about your curiosity, values and alchemistic abilities.

When everything falls apart, we must invite our hands and our hearts to come out to play, and ask our analytical minds to wait.*
(Bob Stilger)

Perfection would be nice but little in life is perfect.

For everything else there’s the re-set – a dimension of the infinite game – and one of its biggest dimensions of the game is forgiveness.

(*Bob Stilger, from Drawn Together Through Visual Practice.)

It’s not a bit at all. It’s the main part and it demands everything.

Between starting and finishing there’s a lot of showing up, huge amounts of effort, probably a good deal of failure and frustration, plenty of sweat and energy.

In summary, a lot of faithfulness on our part.

But then, the thing you must do matters this much.

Right?

Only because we do not understand everything and because we cannot control the future is it possible to live and be human.*
(Iona Heath)

All types of skill teach us the same deep truth:that the ore we can immerse ourselves into the forces at place, the more freedoms we have.**
(Bill Sharpe)

Taking the lowest place can be to find freedom.

Free to admit we’re wrong.

Free to learn something new.

Free to serve.

Free to fail.

Free to try again.

Free to try harder.

Free to be moved.

Free to be fully ourselves.

Free to be present.

Free to play.

Free to live.

(*Iona Heath, quoted in Bill Sharpe’s Three Horizons.)
(**From Bill Sharpe’s Three Horizons.)

Clutching a physical book, like holding someone’s hand, tenders its own special sensations.*
(Diane Ackerwood)

The very nature of the universe invites you to a journey and to discover it.**
(John O’Donohue)

I only really began reading at the age of thirty eight. Previously I’d managed to get through a few books a year but in 1998, something significant happened in my life and I knew I would have to read more to make the most of it.

In her letter to young readers, one of the many in Maria Popova and Claudia Bedrick’s wonderful tome of text and picture, Dianne Ackerman writes of her love for books:

I love the comforting weight of a book, and the way your finger’s skim across the creamy puddles of its pages, one after another, following the darting minnows of words. You can stroll through a book’s compact, neatly bound world, hold it open in both hands, and stare thoughtfully into its face, then close it and see it whole.*

There are now many books that are sacred to me, holy scriptures that have helped and guided me to arrive in this moment, which is a moment of possibility:

This is now what matters, your readers. The moment we’re living in is what counts – how will this moment, the stories we’re living inside of, change us … forever?^

Scriptures as in writings that come to us from others.

Sacred as in setting me aside to live the life only I can live, and for you to live the life you must.

Holy in terms of the best things we can live for, such as love:

Love is the thing that pushes us to succeed. Love is a thing that we have to feel for ourselves, for our family, for our friends, for our partners. Love is what we want to come home to, but it’s also what we want to come in to in the morning. We need love everywhere. And that’s the whole point. We’re building a system with love inside.^^

Sometimes these scriptures are entire books, sometimes only an excerpt, but we know they are are holy scriptures because of what they open for us; they are our library of requirement:

No matter where life takes you, you’re never alone with a book, which becomes a tutor, a wit, a mind-sharpener, a soulmate, a performer, a sage, a verbal bouquet for a loved on.*

These libraries are always growing, opening adjacent possibilities, constantly a garden of forking paths:

The “adjacent possible” is theoretical biologist Stuart Kauffman’s wonderful term for all the myriad paths unlocked by every novel discovery, the multitude of universes hidden in something as simple as an idea.*^

Read on.

(*Diane Ackerwood’s letter to young readers, from Maria Popova and Claudia Bedrick’s A Velocity of Being.)
(**From John O’Donohue’s Eternal Echoes.)
(^Jacqueline Woodson’s letter to young readers, from Maria Popova and Claudia Bedrick’s A Velocity of Being.)
(^^From gapingvoid’s blog: Love is the mission.)
(*^From Peter Diamandis and Steven Kotler’s Bold.)