Doubt as a gift

There’s often doubt.  Giving someone the benefit of that doubt enables us to move forward, and that requires us to realise that our doubt might be unfounded.  Systems that assume goodwill create possibility, connection and utility far easier than those that don’t.*
Seth Godin

Doubt is more often experienced
at the beginning of something
rather than the end; certainty can be
way more troublesome.

*Seth Godin’s blog: Assume goodwill.

Who?

The true master, when his or her prestige is threatened by age or circumstance, can say, “Don’t you see that I am a person who could be utterly forgotten without batting an eye?”*
Arthur Brooks

There will come a time when I
will be gone and forgotten –
And that’s okay,
I am preparing;
I only hope to be of some help
to you before this happens.


*Arthur Brooks’ From Strength to Strength.

Beyond perplexity

Harmony has been described as a second naïveté, a second simplicity or innocence, where instead of seeing through everything, we see into everything, and at the core, we find not meaninglessness and banality but profound, inexpressible belatedness and beauty.*
Brian McLaren

After simplicity** comes
complexity,^ after complexity comes
perplexity,^^ after perplexity comes
harmony,*^ the new, larger
simplicity holding, in love and
with compassion, all
that we have experienced
for the sake of others.

*Brian McLaren’s Faith After Doubt
**”I’m going to do it”;
^”This is more difficult than I thought”;
^^”This is impossible”;
*^”I have been overcome and have overcome.”

Becoming guides

An effective way of seeing what you are not seeing is to have it pointed out to you by someone you respect who has a different position in and perspective on the system.*
Adam Kahane

Pain then, is often the teacher that transforms the hero into the guide. That is, if their attitude toward pain is accepting and redemptive.**
Donald Miller

Let us be wary of those who want to guide but
have not struggled or suffered along the way we must take;
Let us be open to those who have been transformed on the way,
Who bring to us insight and compassion.

*Adam Kahane’s Everyday Habits For Transforming Systems;
**Donald Miller’s Hero On a Mission.

The option

Don’t beat yourself up. Build yourself up. Make yourself better. That’s what friends do.*
Ryan Holiday

The person we’re most hard on is ourself –
We wouldn’t treat a friend like this, and
we don’t have to behave like this to ourself;
We have a choice to use the failure, the lapse, the
transgression to transform.

*Ryan Holiday’s Discipline is Destiny.

What would happen?

Many of my students have difficulty slowing down, focusing their attention, and exhibiting the necessary concentration their studies require. Drawing-to-calm through colouring offers the opportunity to develop these habits of mind.*
Laurence Musgrove

What would happen?

Probably not a lot –
The world won’t end but
we will be more relaxed,
And that can’t be bad.

*Brandy Agerbeck’s Drawn Together Through Visual Practice.

Colouring the myth

Well Joe, to me a myth is something that never was but is always happening.*
Jean Houston

Your myth will lead you home,
Not in any specific way, but
in calling
resonating
revealing
recovering
resetting, and
vitalising.

My hope is to encourage you to
uncover your myth –
And here is a doodle you’re welcome to
print off and colour in
as you reflect on your myth.

*Jean Houston’s A Mythic Life, speaking to Joseph Campbell.