How alive is this?

Transience turns everything to air. You look behind and see no signs even of a yesterday that was so intense. Yet in truth, nothing ever disappears, nothing is lost. Everything that happens to us in the world passes into us. It all becomes part of the inner temple of the soul and it can never be lost.*
John O’Donohue

The last time we took an action on an idea, extended ourselves for a friend, and perhaps encouraged ourselves for a new project – these happened because the story worked.**
Seth Godin

We are more substantial than we know,
Our lives filled with so much that will make us
stronger, more imaginative, creative, generous.

The thing that makes the difference between so much
being lost to us, and so to each other,
And instead to be
accessed and engaged with, is
our story.

I want to unfold.
I don’t want to stay folded anymore,
because where I am folded,
I am a lie.^

*John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty;
**Seth Godin’s blog: What’s your story?;
^Rainer Maria Rilke from Keri Smith’s The Wander Society.

Two worlds

While the knowing of the mind is limited by frontiers, the soul has no frontiers.*
John O’Donohue

Whatever powers we have in the world, in our work, in our powers of leadership, in our imaginations, they are the gifts of a much larger world than one when have made for ourselves. They are only part of deeper, inescapable, ancestral imaginings which we join and which inform our ever day and to which, every next day, we introduce our own children. More truthfully, perhaps, we let our children go out into the world and find if for themselves, and report it back to us as if new … .**
David Whyte

There is an ordinary world –
Sport, politics, shopping, comedy shows, food, jobs … –
And there is a special world –
Meaning, myths, inexplicable things, presence, alchemy, connection … .

Dot dot dot … .

Both lists are wonderfully long –
passing through my life.**

More than ever, I know,
I would not want to live in one without the other.

We don’t have to.

The child takes in the world as if it were food. 
And his world nourishes or starves him. 
Nothing escapes his thirst;
secrets are impossible. 
He identifies with his surroundings,
and they live within him unconsciously.^

*John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty;
**David Whyte’s Crossing the Unknown Sea;
^M. C. Richards’ Centering.

Laughing with you

Other people may live in pain but deny it. The comic mind, on the other hand, lives in pain, but has the courage to express it.  The comic mind has the moral strength to see life as it is, and use their art to wake us up to what is right and sane. The comic mind tells the truth.*
Robert McKee

Artists help us to understand ourselves and our time through pictures, parables and actions.**
Keith Haring

I read recently how the
line dividing good and evil runs through
the centre of each one of us.

Our best art, performance, stories, myths, poems, and comedy
help us to see and understand and
embrace this truth,
So that we might daily,
wrestle with it
for all our sakes.

And there was war in heaven.
Michael and his angels fought
against the dragon,
and the dragon and his angels fought back. 
But he was not strong enough,
and they lost their place in heaven.
The great dragon was hurled down –
that ancient serpent called the devil,
or Satan,
who leads the whole world astray.^

*Robert McKee‘s newsletter: Do You Have a Comic Mind?;
**Keith Haring’s Keith Haring Journals;
^Revelation 12:7-9.

Flawed but genius you

[T]he genius of an individual lies in the inhabitation of their peculiar and particular spirit in conversation with the world. Genius is something in itself and no other thing.*
David Whyte

The shape of each soul is different. An individual is a carefully fashioned, unique world. The shape of the flaw that each person carries is also different. The flaw is the special shape of personal limitation; angled at a unique awkwardness to the world, it makes our difficulty and challenge in the world different from that of others.**
John O’Donohue

Embrace your awkwardness,
Understand and grow it,
Express and edge it,
But do not lose it:
Of course,
once you sand off the edges,
it’s hard to get traction.^

Your flaw will lead you into your
flow.

When you trust yourself enough
to integrate your strangeness,
you bestow a gift on yourself.**

*David Whyte’s Crossing the Unknown Sea;
**John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty;
^Seth Godin’s blog: Sanding off all the edges.

Do you need more time?

Sankofa is a term in Twi, a dialect of the Akan language in Ghana. It means “go back and get it.” …

“I’m not sure what it is yet, let’s interact and see” opens the door to forward motion and wonder, instead of pushing hard for things to get back to normal.*
Seth Godin

The best present is a mixture of
the best past and the
best future –
We can be deep-time people,
If we want to be.

*Seth Godin’s The Song of Significance.

Delightful

When you discover something new about yourself, you become more grounded and free. It is delightful when you find out more of your hidden light, when the radiance inside you glimmers through in new unexpected colours.*
John O’Donohue

Touching people’s lives in a positive way is as close as I can get to an idea of religion. Belief in one’s self is only a mirror of belief in other people and every person.**
Keith Haring

More delightful than discovering what
lies within ourselves is discovering what exists within
the lives of others.

Edward Chip Anderson handed out
a stack of reading glasses to the group
at the close of the day exploring our strengths,
Making the simple request that for the next week
we spend a few moments wearing our glasses
as a prompt for
reflection:
Half of the time to be spent on our own abilities,
The other half imagining those
of the people around us.

I have never forgotten Chip’s request;
In many ways it has shaped my work,
And perhaps here, in seeing each other
in a deeper way,
There lies the hope of the world.

*John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty;
**Keith Haring’s Keith Haring Journals
.

To prosper

Find the nerds, the motivated, and the overlooked, and figure out what they need to thrive. That exploration will reveal what others have needed as well but didn’t care enough to speak about it.*
Seth Godin

It is interesting to ask: what are the limits you have set for your life?  Where are the lines of those limits?  Why do you think you cannot go beyond them?  How real are they?  Did you construct the  limits out of fear and anxiety? … The awakening of the beauty of your creativity can totally change the way you view limits.**
John O’Donohue

Everyone has a special world
beyond the limits of the ordinary,
Where abilities and joys and actions
come into sharper definition and
take on greater significance within
a larger story that will
bring the change we need:
When you see the list not as a
continuing barrier
but as a threshold,
You are already beyond.**

*Seth Godin’s The Song of Significance;
**John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty.

What can we imagine

The human imagination can not be programmed by a computer. Our imagination is our greatest hope for survival.*
Keith Haring

The earth is your customer, and many people will be aligned as you serve it.**
Seth Godin

The important word in the title is “we.”

The human imagination is incomparable,
And what occurs when Imaginations
get together is nothing short of exponential;
We’re discovering more about human community
and about ourselves:
The who-ness of someone
can never be finally named, know,
claimed, controlled or
predicted.^

Our world needs us.

*Keith Haring’s Keith Haring Journals;
**Seth Godin’s The Song of Significance (also the doodle quote);
^John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty.

First things first

It’s a cause of relief. You get to give up on something that was always impossible – the quest to become the optimised, infinitely capable, emotionally invincible, fully independent person you’re officially supposed to be. Then you get to roll up your sleeves and start work on what’s gloriously possible instead.*
Oliver Burkeman

The awakening of individuality is a continual unfolding of our presence.**
John O’Donohue

Getting ready for the day –
Wash, dress, breakfast, help others,
Gather everything you need to take with you –
Ready?,
Or forgotten something?

How do you prime yourself for
the best day today can be?

Intention gives us the power to
describe and name possible futures.
And possible futures help us claim
the path we’re willing to work for.^

Priming enables us to more than reactive,
To respond, or better still,
To protect:
Freedom comes from not being
the direct reaction of your environment.^^

We speak of being our best self, but
better than this is to be our true self,
And a little time at the beginning of the day
set in the most natural way for us –
Perhaps quietness, journaling, reading, walking,
Listening to inspiring music or a thoughtful podcast –
Prepares us to be our strongest self and
to make our contribution.

If you are using one of these ways or another,
You already know the benefit:
If not,
Why not give one or other a test run for a week, or two?

Maybe we struggle to justify something like this
to others or
to ourselves, but as Seth Godin reminds us:
Mortals must do what they are here
to do or
they will become cranky.*^

And no-one wants your cranky
or mine:
They want us to
do that beautiful thing
we are here to do.

*Oliver Burkeman’s Four Thousand Weeks;
**John O’Donohue’s Divine Beauty;
^Seth Godin’s The Song of Significance;
^^Ben Hardy’s Be Your Future Self Now;
*^Seth Godin’s Tales of the Revolution.

Imagine a team member with all the traditional vocation skills: productive, skilled, experienced. A resumé that can prove it. A fine baseline. Now add to it. Perceptive, charismatic, driven, focused, goal-setting, inspiring ad motivated. Generous, empathetic, and consistent. A deep listener, with patience.*


A-fossicking we will go

But if we’re seeking a liminal state, the significance of getting from here to there, then we’re in a mode of discovery, not driving a train on a single set of tracks.*
Seth Godin

To young children, of course, nature is full of doors – is nothing bt doors really – and they swing open at every step.**
Robert Macfarlane

Fossicking is rummaging, searching, prospecting.

The dreamwhispering I get up to
is about foraging through the hidden and/or
unexplored parts of our lives,
Delving beneath the surface of the obvious and familiar
to the unnoticed or undervalued,
Out of which emerges a richer story.

By the time we come to the end of a
journey of conversations, there’s
an agglomeration of thoughts, feelings, expressions, and
possibilities to be sifted through;
Every one can lead to somehere, to
something, to
someone –
Smorgasboardian possibilities.

*Seth Godin’s The Song of Significance;
**Robert Macfarlane’s Landmarks.