Vacilando on

VACILANDO (v) Travelling when the experience is more important than the destination.*
Ella Frances Sanders

When seeking guidance, don’t ever listen to the tiny-hearted. Be kind to them, heap them with blessings, cajole them, but do not follow their advice. If you have ever been called defiant, incorrigible, forward, cunning, insurgent, unruly, rebellious, you’re on the right track. Wild Woman is close by.**
Clarissa Pinkola Estés

The hero’s journey is simply
the movement within a life in motion
from the self to the other^ through
selflessness and
generosity and
shared wisdom;
In keeping with an heroic quest, guides
appear, but we must choose carefully for
many today lead from the other to the self, from
the greater to the lesser, but the measure of our search is
always love and goodness and light.

*Ella Frances Sanders’ Lost in Translation – Spanish verb;
**Clarissa Pinkola Estés’ Women Who Run With the Wolves
;
^By the other, I refer to other humans, and also other species and Earth.

Miraculous

Maybe we can at least begin to listen again to the world. Who knows into what secrets that will lead us.*
Kenneth White

Walking on earth is a miracle! We do not have to walk in space or on water to experience a miracle. The real miracle is to be awake in the present moment. Walking on the green earth, we can realise the wonder of being alive.**
Thich Nhat Hanh

Perhaps take a moment and
listen and
feel and
smell and
see and
taste and
notice the thought and
track the feeling, and
hold your miracle.

*Philip Newell’s Sacred Earth, Sacred Soul;
**Mary Ruth Broz and Barbara Flynn’s Midwives of An Unnamed Future.

Enthralling

Start by learning to recognise what interests you.
Most people have been taught that what they notice
doesn’t matter.
So they never learn how to notice,
Not even what interests them.*

Verlyn Klinkenborg

We must reserve a back room, wholly our own and entirely free, wherein to settle our true liberty, our principal solitude and retreat.**
Michel de Montaigne

The person who notices and
reflects and
acts
is preparing for an enthralling life.

*Verlyn Klinkenborg’s Several short sentences about writing;
**Annie Murphy Paul’s The Extended Mind.

Abundantly

The revelation of plenitude calls for a revelation of mind.*
Lewis Hyde

Such as are your habitual thoughts, such also will be the character of your mind.**
Marcus Aurelius

It is our character that transforms our thinking about
talents and abilities from being
ways of getting things to becoming
ways of giving things.

*Lewis Hyde’s Trickster Makes This World;
**Ryan Holiday’s The Daily Stoic.

Where are you from?

Every hero has an origin story.*
Todd Hermann

Dorothy has now found her inner strength and her voice … In the Hero’s Journey, this is known as Apotheosis, when the hero’s limited self dies and is transformed into a new being of light, divine knowledge, love, and compassion.**
Jean Houston

By the grace of God,
I am from error and
pain and
experiment and
failure and
awkwardness and
rejection and
ignorance and
foolishness and
quandary and
hope and
curiosity and
reading and
listening and
slowness and
loving and
passion and
joy.

Now ask me where
I am going.

*Todd Hermann’s The Alter Ego Effect;
**Jean Houston’s The Wizard of Us.

Workshop Earth

Workshop mess. That’s one of the major highlights of the workshop. Come try things, make things, get dirty, give it a shot. It’s not a beauty contest, it’s not on display and it doesn’t have to work. It’s a workshop. It’s a mess. The mess isn’t a necessary evil…it’s a FEATURE.*
Gabe Anderson,

A journey is called that because you cannot know what you will discover on the journey, what you will do with what you find, or what you find will do to you.**
James Baldwin

Workshops are great places for trying things out, whether
we call them studios, studies, offices, class rooms, laboratories, sheds, workspaces, factories …
They are already full of ideas, materials, tools, failed experiments to reuse;
We like them because we are walking workshops, creative-spaces on legs crammed with
experiences, memories, successes, failures, dreams, ideas, talents, values, and energy –
When we see our lives and our spaces in this way,
We can never be stuck.

There’s a temptation to do nothing simply because there’s so much to do that one doesn’t know where to begin. Begin anywhere.^

*Gabe Anderson’s blog: Workshop Mess;
**Adam Kahane’s Everyday Habits For Transforming Systems.
^John Cage, from Adam Kahane’s Everyday Habits For Transforming Systems.

Resistances, tensions and possibilities

The greater the tension, the greater is the potential.*
Carl Jung

My greatest challenge is balancing patience and impatience, because I’m 100 percent of both.**
Roseanne Haggerty

Impatience with what is,
Including ourselves, is important, is
aliveness, but this work is going to take a while,
Perhaps a lifetime or more, so we had
better figure out how to be impatient and
patient, persevering and
resting.

*Lisa Cron’s Story or Die;
**Adam Kahane’s Everyday Habits for Transforming Systems.

When the world became bigger

Work harder at making the familiar strange. Walk or drive a different route than your daily routine; work away from your desk; read something flamboyantly irrelevant; call someone you don’t need to call; look up at the sky instead of the concrete. When you turn back to your routine, it will feel freshened.*
Jason Zweig

The natural state of the mind is often for it to bounce gently around, usually remaining only loosely focused and receptive to new stimuli, the state sometimes known as ‘open awareness,’ which neuroscientific research has shown is associated with incubating creativity.**
Oliver Burkeman

We often find ourselves acting as if good work is keeping
our foot to the pedal of concentration, but
the best work often arrives through playing within the rhythm
of focusing and unfocusing, concentrating and relaxing, fast and slow –
Each of these requires different kinds of effort, and perhaps
we find the unfocused and relaxed and slow the hardest.

*Rob Walker’s The Art of Noticing newsletter: Hi, Resolution;
**Oliver Burkeman’s Meditations For Mortals.

Well, that is different

Say “I don’t know” at least 10 times a day. That will disqualify you for a career in politics but make you a better person.*
Jason Zweig

We become prisoners of our paradigms. Stepping outside the walls, however, permits a new vantage point. We don’t have new information, we have a new perspective.**
Matthew Syed

One way to see differently and
understand more is to
ask another what they see and
deeply listen to their reply.

*Rob Walker’s The Art of Noticing newsletter: Hi, Resolution;
**Matthew Syed’s Rebel Ideas.