To find our wild

The old one, The One Who Knows, is within us. She thrives in the deepest soul-psyche of women, the ancient and vital wild Self.*
Clarissa Pinkola Estés

Live the questions now.
Perhaps then, someday far in the future,
you will gradually,
without even noticing it, live your way into the answer.**

Rainer Maria Rilke

Thousands of years of evolution flowing through us:
Journeying,
Being curious,
Crossing thresholds,
Being in awe,
Forming communitas,
Inventing,
Shaping stories,
Seeking beauty,
Treasuring love.

*Clarissa Pinkola Estés’ Women Who Run With the Wolves;
**The Northumbria Community‘s Morning Prayer.

To each their responsibility

A refined soul is in general one with the gift of transforming the most limited task and the most petty object into something infinite by the way in which it is handled.*
Friedrich Schiller

being human is nothing more than being conscious and being responsible**
Viktor Frankl

Our touch –
Those talents, energies, values –
Makes all the difference in the world:
The task, the role, the person,
Creating an infinite game, seeing
an infinite person;
We don’t come into the world preprogrammed –
It is always our choice, the joyful
responsibility opened to us through consciousness.

*Friedrich Schiller’s On the Aesthetic Education of Man;
**Viktor Frankl’s Yes to Life.

The write stuff

Only people who don’t write think you know what you think before you write. You write to learn what you think.*
Marc Weidenbaum

Writing is a process in which we discover what lives in us. The writing itself reveals to us what is alive in us. The deepest satisfaction of writing is precisely that it opens new spaces within us of which we were not aware before we started to write. To write is to embark on a journey of which we do not know the final destination.**
Henri Nouwen

An idea –
I write it,
A problem –
I write it,
A struggle –
I write it
The criticism –
I write it,
That went well –
I write it,
My story –
I write it;
Writing is my interface between
the ordinary and extraordinary –
An everyday everyone superpower
To make it more powerful, just add
doodles and conversation.

*Austin Kleon’s blog: Stepping into the portal;
**Henri Nouwen’s Spiritual Direction.

Swedging*

‘How do you hold on,’ said night
‘To peace in the day?’
‘To keep what I have,’ said light
‘I have to give it away’**

Lemn Sissay

The evolutionary purpose of story is conflict resolution … The riveting conflict in any story … revolves around the internal struggle that the protagonist goes through in order to solve the external problem.^
Lisa Cron

We might imagine some idyllic story
for ourselves, yet, it is in the struggle that
we will know that we are alive:
A conflict without prompting a swedge within,
Another word for which is growth, and perhaps another,
Flourishing.

*Swedge (n) Scottish for brawl or fight; present participle: swedging;
**Lemn Sissay’s let the light pour in;
^Lisa Cron’s Story or Die.

Mythmical

So, in the most natural way, I took it upon myself to get to know my myth, and this I regarded as my task of tasks.*
Carl Jung

A person who doesn’t know what the universe is, doesn’t know where they are. A person who doesn’t know their purpose in life doesn’t know who they are or what the universe is. A person who doesn’t know any of these things doesn’t know why they are here. So what to make of people who seek or avoid the praise of people who have no knowledge of where or who they are.**
Marcus Aurelius

Will we ever fully know who we are, that is,
Who we can grow to be? –
I doubt the world is made up of people who fully know themselves
or don’t,
More likely we find people moving towards their full selves
or not – and
which am I, and
which are you?^

Take me down to the spring of my life, and tell me my nature and my name.^^

*Joseph Campbell’s Pathways to Bliss;
**Ryan Holiday’s The Daily Stoic;
^A myth comprises four elements: And of what I regard as four major functions that mythology serves, the first one is the mystical function.  The second is the cosmological, re-relating to the cosmos.  The third is the sociological, and the fourth is the pedagogical, carrying the individual through the stages of his life. (Joseph Campbell’s The Hero’s Journey);

^^George Appleton, from the Northumbria Community‘s Morning Prayer.

Just a doodle 173

A person begins to be human only where they have the freedom to oppose bondage to a type. For only there, in freedom, is their being – being responsible; only there “is” a person authentically, or only there is a person “authentic.”*
Viktor Frankl

*Viktor Frankl’s The Doctor and the Soul – the words in italics indicate where I have been gender-inclusive.

Just a doodle 172

“Does it work?” That’s the first question. The second question is, “how do we make it work better?”These two questions, patiently repeated, lead to incremental improvement and an understanding of reality. The opposite approach is, “because I said so.” Reality might not care what you want.*
Seth Godin

*Seth Godin’s blog: “Does it work?”

Need to get out more?

We think we want the answers. But really what we want are the problems.*
Gabe Anderson

Give me sober activism anytime, rather than rose-tined fatalism.**
Viktor Frankl

Answers are like home,
Questions, problems, are like journeys –
We need both, but the snag can be that
we stay in when we need to get out more.^

*Gabe Anderson’s blog: Hanayama;
**Viktor Frankl’s Yes to Life;
^Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi wrote about how we are born with two contradictory sets of instructions: conservative and expansive; the first requires little encouragement, not so the second – where curiosity and creativity dwell.

Enriched time

Wonder is the heaviest element in the periodic table. Even a tiny speck of it stops time.*
Diane Ackerman

The whole point of finitude is that it gets easier to spend more of your time on worthwhile and life-enriching activities once you’re no longer trying to do all of them, or do them perfectly, or do them with the secret agenda of achieving a feeling of security or control.**
Oliver Burkeman

My father never owned a watch,
He immersed himself in work he loved, punctuated by mealtimes;
On the other hand, much of my working life has been
ruled by my watch.

We don’t have all the time in the world, but
doing something we love and that opens us to wonder –
Whether it be the natural world, things to discover, or people –
Has a strange affect on time –
To know ourselves and be ourselves is an important part of this.

In one sense, I don’t have a lot of time left,
And I’ve certainly wasted a lot of time, but,
Just like you,
I can affect time by developing my wonder,
Immersing myself in timelessness, which
at its best, will
always include others in some way,
And we have a whole new year to play with this.

I must change my life so that I can live it, not wait for it.^

*Jonah Paquette’s Awestruck;
**Oliver Burkeman’s Meditations for Mortals
;
^Susan Sontag, from James Clear’s newsletter: 3-2-1: On the power of quiet moments, how to make good habits easy, and starting the year with enthusiasm.

Contemplate that, why don’t you

the opposite of contemplation is not action – it is reaction*
Richard Rohr

The great tragedy of speed as an answer to complexities and responsibilities of existence is that very soon we cannot recognise anything or anyone who is not travelling at the same velocity as we are.**
David Whyte

Without a contemplative practice, we are
more likely to react than respond, and
initiating – the option no one thought of – is
even further beyond our reach;
The enemy of contemplation is speed,
Including busyness that has us
missing so much, perhaps
even the things we should be about
instead of what we are doing.

Contemplation begins alone,
Then involves others, and must always be
translated into imaginative action;
The great thing is that contemplation doesn’t
cost us a penny, and we have a whole new year
to try it out,
Perhaps writing a journal,
Or maybe walking, or
being still in nature, or
a gallery or some blank space –
Whatever works,
Have fun experimenting.

*Richard Rohr’s Immortal Diamond;
**David Whyte’s Crossing the Unknown Sea.