Goodness gracious

doing good was our greatest source of happiness*
gapingvoid

What’s would you do if you could not fail? … What would you do even though you might fail?**
Bernadette Jiwa

What a neat trick:
Happiness follows doing good,
The same goodness that keeps us on track
no matter what.

Goodness is a part of
who we are:
Evolution has produced a mind that
evolves towards an appreciation of
the vastness of our collective design,
and emotions that enable us to
enact these loftier notions. 
We are wired for good.^

*gapingvoid‘s blog: The Quest for Our Higher Self;
**Bernadette Jiwa’s The Story of Telling blog: On Doing the Work That is Calling to Us:
^Dacher Keltner’s Born To Be Good.

(My apologies: I am unable to find the sources for either of today’s quotes.)

To the edges

Because you can only create from what’s already in your mind, your work is strictly limited to the contents of your unthought thoughts.*
Robert McKee

It’s a good thing reality isn’t limited by your imagination. It’s a good thing reality doesn’t mirror your imagination. The fact that you can imagine a different reality, and set your path toward it, is a miracle.**
Gabe Anderson

I may feed my body with the same breakfast of porridge every day,
But I aim to feed my mind – and my imagination – with
a mélange of thoughts and ideas;
Our imaginations will work with what it finds in our minds,
For good or bad:
The mind takes the shape of whatever
it rests upon – or, more exactly,
the brain takes the shape of whatever
the mind rests upon.^

There are so many thoughts and ideas out there, so
where to begin? –
Following our curiosities and interests is always a good place to
start, but don’t only focus on the centre of these, rather
pay attention to what you find on their edges, then dive
into these, always noticing what appears on their edges,
And on.

Once inside the imagination all manner of inexplicable things occur. Time gets loopy, the past presses itself against the present, and the future pours out its secrets.^^

*Robert McKee’s Character;
**Gabe Anderson’s blog: Imagination;
^Rick Hanson, from Jean Houston’s The Wizard of Us;
^^Nick Cave’s blog: The Red Hand Files #156

Lost in purpose

The flâneur moves through the city with neither a map nor a plan. He has to feel himself free and alone, ready for the imponderable.*
Federico Castigliano

Malabou expounds Derrida‘s thought by settling into the undecidability of the French words dériver and arriver. Dériver signifies at one and the same time “to derive” but also “to drift” or “to deviate,” while arriver means not only to arrive at or reach the destination one has consciously set out to reach but also to come about by chance, to happen, like a surprise … .**
John Caputo

It’s okay to use a map or to
follow a plan, but sometimes, it’s better
to leave them behind and wander, especially
with others – something
imagined by Theory U‘s more
circuitous journey of opening the mind and
heart and will, whereby, perhaps,
We shall encounter something not previously imagined
wanting to emerge.

*Federico Castigliano’s Flâneur;
**John Caputo’s What Would Jesus Deconstruct?

Now or no?

The discipline of creation, be it to paint, compose, write, is an effort towards wholeness … we are diminished, and we forget that we are more than we know … .*
Madeleine L’Engle

And if you stopped doing all these things you’re doing for the money and the attention, what would be left? What would you be if you didn’t do these things?**
Derek Sivers

It may not be the thing you are being paid for,
Nor what is getting you noticed –
These may simply be camouflaging what
you really need to do if we are to
lose the feeling that something is
missing.

You may know, yet be putting it off,
Waiting for the perfect conditions that will
never arrive – more likely it is the present imperfect conditions that are
necessitous to your art.

Our success has a lot to do with how we dance with conditions that aren’t quite perfect.^

*Madeleine L’Engle’s Walking on Water;
**Derek Sivers’ Hell Yeah or No;
^Seth Godin’s blog: The perfect conditions.

Art is as you are

You were born to make art. But you’ve been brainwashed into believing you can’t trust yourself enough to do so.*
Seth Godin

To be someone as an artist, means: to be able to speak to one’s self.**
Rainer Maria Rilke

Which of these two statements
explains how you think of yourself?

To be human is to be an artist.

Only some are able to be artists.

Which statement do you believe to be true?

*Seth Godin’s The Practice;
**Raier Maria Rilke’s Letters on Life.

The dance

Plot-driven stories put major turning points, especially the inciting incident, beyond the character’s control … Character-driven stories do the opposite. They put major events in the character’s hands.*
Robert McKee

Perhaps the best strategy for lottery tickets is not to buy one. Your odds go up when you do useful and remarkable work for people who care.**
Seth Godin

In reality, our stories are a mix of the
plot-driven and character-driven, yet
what they hold in common is the possibility of
bringing and developing our best self.

Marcus Aurelius shares some habits he found to be helpful:
1. Accept only what is true.
2. Work for the common good.
3. Match our needs and wants with what is in our control.
4. Embrace what nature has in story for us.^

The apostle Paul adds to these with some
personal virtues that aided him in imprisonment:
Humility, gentleness, patience,
Forbearance, and love.^^

*Robert McKee’s Character;
**Seth Godin’s blog: How to buy a lottery ticket;
^Ryan Holiday’s The Daily Stoic;
^^Ephesians 4:1-3.

Ruling things in

From the disparity between the immensity of the possible and the smallness of the human being there springs the torment and the energy of the flâneur. Persecuted by frustration, he is sentenced to a sort of perpetual motion.*
Federico Castigliano

Why shouldn’t an anonymous career spent quietly helping a few people get to qualify as a meaningful way to spend one’s time? Why shouldn’t an absorbing conversation, an act of kindness, or an exhilarating hike get to count. Why adopt a definition [of achievement] that rules such things out?**
Oliver Burkeman

We may never achieve “great” things –
As others see them,
We may not accomplish everything we want,
We may never finish the “to do” list or empty the inbox –
And all of this is okay, the reality of our smallness
and finiteness.

Whilst the spirit of the flâneur and the flâneuse illustrates
the importance of wandering and
slowness, openness and
wonder, curiosity and
questioning, this doesn’t have to result in
persecution and frustration,
Rather, in embracing rather than fighting our
finitude, we may ease into the
meaningful and satisfying life that awaits us.

*Federico Castigliano’s Flâneur;
**Oliver Burkeman’s Meditations for Mortals.