When someone shares a new idea, or makes a pitch, or describes a dream, what would happen if you were enthusiastic? … In this moment, your confidence and enthusiasm exist to make the idea better. No harm in that. For either of you*
Seth Godin

Master storytellers understand we need true satires and tragedies, dramas and comedies that shine a clean light into the dingy corners of the human psyche and society.**
Robert McKee

The dawn arrives each day to play a “yes and” game, inviting us to bring our light, too.

Here is the wonder of a new day: no matter how tragic or comedic or dramatic, every life has some light to bring.

Although this may not be how it feels to us, it may be that some rearrangement of all the things that fill our lives will make it possible for our light to shine out:

It’s not the sequence of the base-pairs, the genes, we ought to be mapping out, but the sequence of the stories that of to make up a life. … And who knows? Arrange them differently and you might get another life altogether.^

This catches my attention because of my dreamwhispering work which seeks to honour the wonder of living a different story with everything our lives contain.

The doodle and today’s title are prompted by Morecambe and Wise’s wonderful Christmas sketch with André Previn (aka Andrew Preview): enjoy.

*From Seth Godin’s blog: Cooperative enthusiasm;
**From Robert McKee’s newsletter: Why Every Story Needs Poetry;
^The character Axel in Jan Kjærstad’s The Seducer, quoted in Peter Turchi’s A Muse and A Maze.

I am a question-asker and a truth seeker. I do not have much in the way of status in my life, nor security. I have been on a quest, as it were, from the beginning.*
M. C. Richards

When people say to me that they are not creative, I assume that they just haven’t learnt what is involved.**
Ken Robinson

It’s not not that I didn’t want to be away for almost a week, filling these days with very different content to the usual, but I have missed certain things from my ordinary and everyday,

Here’s the question that formed:

When you have to alter your routine and the contents of your day, what do you miss most of all, and why?

*From M. C. Richards’ Centering;
**From Ken Robinson’s Out of Our Minds.

The best moments usually occur when a person’s body or mind is stretched to its limits in voluntary effort to accomplish something difficult and worthwhile.*
Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

May you enter your flow.

*From Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi‘s Flow.

A hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself.*
Joseph Campbell

*Joseph Campbell, from Anna Katharina Schaffner’s The Art of Self-Improvement.

The artist rarely says, “I’d like to do less.” Instead she wonders how to contribute more, because the very act of creativity is the point of the work.*
Seth Godin

Where you are the bottle of ink and the doodles are the things you must do.

*From Seth Godin’s blog: But what could you learn instead?

The royal road to self-improvement is … a form of perseverance that, far from being put off by failure, accepts it as essential.*
Anna Katharina Schaffner

*From Anna Katharina Schaffner’s The Art of Self-Improvement.

Intentional change is emotionally rigorous – it doesn’t exactly feel good and can even be shockingly painful. If you’re unwilling to put yourself through emotional experience, shift your perspective, and make purposeful changes to your behaviour and environment, then don’t expect huge changes (at least in the short run).*
Ben Hardy

*From Ben Hardy’s Personality Isn’t Permanent.

For humility is … the only effective antidote to narcissism, and all its associated evils. It is, in essence, a readiness to admit to shortcomings coupled with a willingness to learn, be that from people, animals, plants, or even machines – whoever masters something we do not. The opportunities are infinite.*
Anna Katharina Schaffner

In this game, we only get one choice Once we are born we are players. The only choice we get is if we want to play with a finite mindset or an infinite mindset.**
Simon Sinek

We have the one choice at the beginning of each day.

If we decide to play infinitely, this will mean being open to and respecting others.

Humility is the way that not only allows me to see me, but also to see you.

*From Anna Katharina Schaffner’s The Art of Self-Improvement;
**From Simon Sinek’s The Infinite Game.

Other than death, there is no finish line or retirement for the creative person.*
Austin Kleon

The first glow of retirement is appearing on the horizon whilst I’m just coming upon what it is I want to be about.

Our reality is that we are able to learn through all the days of our lives, our illusion is retirement.

*From Austin Kleon’s blog: There is no finish line.

To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest.*
Pema Chödrön

The royal road to self-improvement is … a form of perseverance that, far from bring put off by failure, accepts it as essential.**
Anna Katharina Schaffner

What I am enjoying about Anna Katharina Schaffner’s book on self-improvement is the long view she provides of different themes considered necessary over millennia for our development.

I’ll be mentioning all ten of these soon as I think that each is important for growth.

A number of these have been promulgated as the only important thing to pursue. It’s also noticeable that different times bring different emphases.

In a time when we are struggling with resilience, one of these has popped up in the form of Angela Duckworth’s Grit^ – now on my reading wishlist. Duckworth names grit’s attributes as being purpose beyond ourselves, resilience, learning from failure, having a growth mindset, and valuing success. (Watch this space.)

I list them here as points to reflect upon (perhaps think smaller rather than bigger):

What do you want to bring into the world that will improve the lives of others?
Which difficult experiences have you gone through that have made you stronger?
Which failures stand out as being pivotal for learning and growth?
How do you define your possibility for growth?
What are some of the important finishing lines you have crossed?

Some people get lucky and do what they want to do without being tested, for everyone else there’s a demanding path of inner growth.

*Pema Chödrön, from Sam Radford’s blog: Killing the moment by controlling the experience;
**From Anna Katharina Schaffner’s The Art of Self-Improvement;
^I’d also recommend Nassim Taleb’s Antifragile.